Frankly, this thought never occurred to me.

I'm with you classicman... I think the same way.

This sounds suspiciously like "Someone else would've nicked it. Why not me?"

He's a customer.

He's married. Whether she knows or not (and she probably knows), you would be harming his wife and their relationship (such as it is).

Horse dude did enough arse kissing on the weekend that he is in the good books again and married dude is off the scene.....well....when he finishes my bathroom.

I know, I have fucked up morals regarding married men.

So you're, "The Other Woman", of story, song & fable.
You be famous. :notworthy

I'm almost afraid to ask this, for two reasons. One, I realize it's NONE of my f*cking business, and two, I'm almost afraid of the answer... but what the hell did Horse Dude DO, exactly, that had you in such a fury over him, DN??

feel free to smack me upside the head if I'm being too nosy...

Thank god SOMEBODY asked. C'mon Ducks, please explain. We dumb men need all the clues we can get.

I havent said for a very good reason...:blush:

Im not 100% sure, you know, it was one of those things, we had a conversation on the phone and he was being a bit *err* about how things were gonna work out between us (stupid schedules n stuff), but he was all hot n bothered about when we were gonna bump uglies again..... and I got really shitty about the whole thing...and stewed on it....and he realised I was pissed, and so he went out of his way to make nice this weekend...but I bet he doesnt really know why.

Its a chick thing...isnt it? I'm sure other chicks have done this before

Sounds like Mars and Venus to me. ;)

her real name is Jolene? wow no wonder she changed it to DucksNuts!

ahh, DN, I've done the same thing on several occasions. Comes with the hormones, I think...

So, let's see if I've got this right. You *want* to do him. He wants to do you. But because he was more honest about when the next time you got to do each other was going to happen, instead of being more concerned about other things...you got pissed?

Wow. Men. We suck when we're honest, and we suck when we're not.

I don't mean to be low brow here.... But it does sound a bit like a booty call. Some women do not mind getting hit up, just for sex. And some do.

I'm getting the idea that he didn't call with any class, or scruples. Like this:

"hello." "I am going to get mine and this is what I have time for." "Buh - bye." (Beeeatch!)

So...with that in mind..

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Remember this thread...wow, anyway, guess who popped back onto the radar recently....HORSE DUDE.

Seems he was having *baggage issues* previously, but didnt want to mention them because he didnt want me to think he had baggage...oh no, much better that I think youre a wanker.

The radio announcer dude and I went out three times when I decided that there wasnt enough room for me and his enthusiasm for himself in the relationship.....and....drum roll...I didnt sleep with him :) Im growing up.

We shall call the other man in my life *the yank*, a few of you will be aware of him as he smashed my heart into a gazillion little pieces a few years back (not his fault), but it seems everytime we get in contact, the flames are rekindled and awaaaaaay we go....THIS time, I guess its do or die, because neither of us can handle the *what if* factor....its not gonna be all that easy considering he lives in Chicago at the moment.

We are having some time together in the next few months, he's coming over here in June or we will hook up in Vegas in September.

Oh, and Horse dude wants to take me out for dinner as a *sorry* for fucking me around previously.

::sigh::

This should be good for a few juicy posts. :yum:

Tell him to go fuck off and ride away on the horse he road in on.