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Dana is pointing out here, that she is English, and I am Irish.
Well-played!! No Irish, No Dogs!! N.I.N.A. lol! Ali- I was making a remark directed along the lines of: even though you are white married to a black person, you are still a racist. (According to this new definiton of racists) I think that would be very insulting. Especially since the new policy is: Racist if white, no matter what..... What if you are half -white? Are you half-racist? This is ridiculous. I need to get out of this thread. uuugh. |
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I don't know about you, but I've been pretty well told that everything in history is someway my fault, even though I wasn't there. |
i'm a 33 year old straight, white male. sometimes when i look at how hard i've worked to scrape by and then get to where i am now, i think "wow, how did i have time to do that while i was busy holding back and oppressing blacks, mexicans, women, and gays?"
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A one panel cartoon I saw once read "I don't know who has been oppressing you for 300 years but they must be much older than I am."
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Ah ha, I see. Now we know who the oppressed really are...
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I'm not oppressed, except for me oppressing myself. And this town I live in is oppressive, but it's not limited to a particular race, sex, or religion. ;)
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If you are proud of the positives that you had nothing to do with you must also be of the negatives, correct, or is this similar to theism where you only associate with the truths you like and disassociate with those that you do not wish to acknowledge? It is just not logical. You did not do any of these things. I can see enjoying a sense of community, history, etc, but "pride", when you actually did nothing? Makes no sense to me. I associate with the Southern way of thinking, but in no way am proud of what the south did, nor the north. The US is comprised of both and see no sense in claiming either as my own, I was not there though my family did participate on both sides. I do not think of myself as white, Cherokee, apache, black, Caribbean, welsh, Scottish, Irish, or anything else that I may be that I am unaware of, these are the only that I know of. I am proud of my education, the work that I have done, relationships that I build and maintain, art that I do and have done, decisions I make, actions. Again, please, anyone... make being proud of something other than an accomplishment logical. Accidents are nothing to be proud of, IMO. |
Pride is not always a bad thing, its a source of identity. It is just when people go over the top with pride and nationalism or have pride in pointless traits do we start to get problems.
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I think you and I have two different definitions of pride, perhaps.
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I agree, I'm just pointing out that his statement that DanaC must be "proud" of negative aspects of her history is not accurate (leaving aside the fact that he has her heritage on the wrong continent in his examples.)
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Not personal "shame," anyway. But society as a whole should be aware of historical acts, and recognize which ones shouldn't be repeated, and maybe even need to be corrected...to help the present eventually become better history, hopefully.
Even though none of us are individually responsible for what happened in history (good and bad), it's still part of what we are, because we came from it. |
There are different types of pride. A parent can feel great pride in their children's achievements. Part of that will be born of their part in creating the child and raising it to make those achievements. But part of it will be a pride born of love or close association. That is a different source of pride to the personal pride one takes in one's own achievements.
The pride I feel in my heritage is born of *thinks* associating into, identifying with that heritage. What is important to me about that heritage is not connected with skin colour, but rather with cultural associations and a sense of my place in the chain. My world is not just made up of what is, but also of what has been. |
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