...and thin and tidy. ;)

...not that theres anything wrong with that.

am I a feminist?

emphatically yes.

usually not.

As with all dictionary entries, you only need to meet one of the definitions.

To ditch baggage couldn't we be striving for this?

hu·man·ist
2. One who is concerned with the interests and welfare of humans.

Of course. I guess everyone has to decide for themselves whether we're there yet.

"isms in my opinion are not good"

these are great words of wisdom from that greatest of sages... Ferris Bueler

Ahhhh, humanist has its baggage too. Women's/girl's rights are of particular concern and interest to me- and are threatened or denied in so many places with or moving towards ass backward cultures. So I'm still holding if not the ism, the ist of Feminist.