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- Pie |
Sorry, I thought you were a guy talking about a guy. Since you're not, this changes everything.
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People have two (or more) parameters: sexual self-identity, and sexual attraction. So "dykes" would self-identify as more male, but would be sexually attracted to women. A "lipstick lesbian" would self-identify as female, but would be sexually attracted to women, too. Repeat with men. Perhaps there's a third axis too -- compatability. Do you get along with a more masculine personality, or a more feminine one? For the record, I self-identify as more masculine, but am attracted to men... Not "dyke" (I have long hair, love to cook and like jewelry) but have been accused of having more balls than most men. Is that a bad thing? - Pie |
Here's a little twist for you:
Is the question really about masculinity/feminity or does it boil down to Top/bottom? |
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And plenty of men who are lazy, weak and henpecked, but sit on the couch drinking beer, scratch themselves and watch NASCAR. Mmmmm. Beer. |
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My sophomore year roommate was/is not only gay, but is now HIV+ living in S.F. and has starred in a few "bear" gay porn movies.
(as "Bill Adams" if anyone is into that scene) I didn't know until about 3/4ths of the way through our year together, and then I just kinda ignored it. He never hit on me or anything. No man-love for the toad-boy. I still love the guy like a brother, deep down in my soul, like an army buddy or something, even though we don't stay in touch much. I feel that way about my freshman year roommate too. Living a whole year with someone and coming out of it not wanting to kill each other, you wind up with a special bond. |
I was hit on by a lesbian a while back and I, too, said "Thanks but no thanks".
I have also had a long-standing reputation for being a lesbian. This started 10 years ago when a rumour started about my closest [female] friend and I being an item - we decided to play up to it a little (dancing close, flirting in public, that sort of stuff) because we figured that if people were talking about us they wouldn't be talking about someone else (this is a small, gossipy community here on the edge of civilisation). Also I probably "male-identify", am confident (outwardly), self-reliant, outspoken, tall, not a girlie-girl - all of this promoted the dyke image. Fast forward eight years or so, I'd lived away for six years and recently returned to buy a house and settle here for good. I find that my arrival is bruited abroad here as "That dyke that speaks Russian has bought the house on the hill". This reputation of mine wasn't weakened by the fact that my first two guests here were single women of my own age. When I did walk into my local bar with a male guest one of the regulars said "Good God, limey! You've walked in with a man!!!!!!!!!!". I had already decided that it was time to challenge this reputation of mine and had primed the guy that he was to behave like an ex-boyfriend .... Not that I care either way, except that to be thought a lesbian when you aren't means you won't get hit oN by guys, except the guys that want to convert you (and that's WIERD !), imo. |
добро пожаловать в подвал, limey.
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No, no, unconfused - i just changed the encoding on this page. Благодарю, Стэйси! |
speaking it doesn't always mean someone can read it.
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