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Undertoad 03-26-2007 06:50 PM

Awesome. We here in the USA would like to remind our denied British applicants -- no, I say, friends -- that our universities are open to their applications. We are looking for the best and brightest to join our society. For some, it will be substantially financially rewarding. You may match the diversity needs and receive financial aid as well. Please forward applications to Shawnee123.

DanaC 03-26-2007 07:00 PM

*chuckles*

I might say at this point that the idea of scanning applicants on those grounds is only a suggestion right now. Blair is desperately peddling about looking for a legacy......anything to blanket out the Iraq debacle......so tres bizarre ideas are suddenly gaining currency atthe moment. Watch this space.

As a local Labour politician I probably shouldn't say stuff like that....but hey I'm amongst friends right?

TheMercenary 03-27-2007 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 326668)
There's an idea floating around Whitehall at the moment to introduce some kind of check on university applicants to see if their parents have a degree.....idea being to try and increase the number of kids from lower income/less educated households getting into uni. Fucking studid idea if ever I heard one. Please for God's sake someone shoot our PM. Y'know we used to have a really good uni system over here. Any student who wanted to go to uni and had the a-levels to get in, was entitled to a grant to assist with living expenses and their tuition fees were covered by the state. It worked. It only stopped working when people got this idea that half the population should be attending university......brilliant...now a degree is worth what an a-level used to be and will just about get you a job in middle-management. Meanwhile the huge number of people who've been persuaded to get that degree whowould otherwise not, have encumbered themselves with huge debts.

Well that sounds exactly like a form of Afirmative Action to me.:whofart:

Shawnee123 03-27-2007 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Undertoad (Post 326694)
You may match the diversity needs and receive financial aid as well. Please forward applications to Shawnee123.

HEY! I just saw this and all I can say is:bolt:

TheMercenary 03-27-2007 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by grant (Post 326673)
I actually think having the market value of a degree fall is a good thing. It just means that the baseline educational level of our population is rising. The bad thing is that academic standards are also being lowered.

Depends on what your degree is in. The goal is to pick something that will be marketable for years after you finish.

Shawnee123 03-27-2007 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 326668)
There's an idea floating around Whitehall at the moment to introduce some kind of check on university applicants to see if their parents have a degree.....idea being to try and increase the number of kids from lower income/less educated households getting into uni. Fucking studid idea if ever I heard one.

~snip

There is a question on the FAFSA asking level of education completed by parents. We don't use it. Some states and institutions have aid for the first-generation college student.

Sigh...today I heard a woman complaining about one of our pell policies, stating she didn't know about it because she's a single mother. Freaking WHAT? For one thing, she signed the damn office app saying she read and understood all policies (and this policy is a big deal so it's written not only in our policies and procedures manual but everywhere else we can find some space to publish it.) And what the hell does her single mothering have to do with it anyway? I would have handed her a condom and sent her on her merry way. Poor downtrodden girl. :right:

DanaC 03-27-2007 03:02 PM

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Well that sounds exactly like a form of Afirmative Action to me
It's a rather twisted version of it. Whether or not someone's parent has a degree is no indicator of socio-economic status (the thing they are supposedly trying to balance out). We have a generation of working class graduates who were able to get a degree because of grants, aid and encouragement.....many of them have not then gone on to join the economic middle class. We still have a problem in the UK with children from low socio economic backgrounds having low expectations and not taking advantage of educational opportunities. The answer to that is to make it more accessible. Instead we have removed many of the forms of assistance that were in place, replaced them with loans and freed the universities up to charge pretty much what they like; consequently, right now a new student can expect to take on approximately £7000 per year in debt. Over the next couple of years that is likely to rise to about £14000 per year. That is likely to put a lot of workingclass kids off attending university and will also put a lot of mature students off as well.

Having made university gradually more difficult to access financially over the last fifteen years, the government's bright idea is to encourage universities not to take as many kids whose parents have a degree and to take on more first generation graduates.....in which case, what the fuck was the point of helping, encouraging and assisting a generation of working class teenagers to attend university twenty years ago....? Many of them were first generation graduates.

Perry Winkle 03-27-2007 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 326951)
The goal is to pick something that will be marketable for years after you finish.

I don't believe that at all. I mean that's what most people think, but most people also think that going to Uni is supposed to teach you how to do something. Which is not true; if you want skill training go to a technical or professional school.

What students should pursue is something they're passionate about, not what will, in theory, make them the most bank. Unless the student doesn't mind doing something they might hate for the next 30-40 years.

A Bachelor's degree is just about enough time and effort for many people to figure out what they're passionate about, if they're lucky.

My unpopular opinion for this post: Law and Medicine are no worse or better fields than Plumbing; they all require technical qualifications.

melidasaur 03-27-2007 03:37 PM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 326951)
Depends on what your degree is in. The goal is to pick something that will be marketable for years after you finish.

Unfortunately, people confuse marketable with profitable - and many students choose majors based on where they will make the most bucks. Nothing wrong with that, but you end up with professionals who have no passion for their profession but more passion for the bottom line. Hence why there are too many lawyers and doctors.

And I can gripe about too many lawyers... I am one and wish that there were less of them to deal with!

Sheldonrs 03-27-2007 04:13 PM

I have a degree in Elementary Education that I'll never use. Anyone want to buy it from me? It's at a good price and I can discount it further since it was obtained in New Jersey! :D

jinx 03-27-2007 04:19 PM

Evolution thru natural selection counts for human beings too.

Every decision that you've made up to this point, have led you to this point.

Spexxvet 03-27-2007 04:41 PM

The US should go to war as a truly last resort.

When the US must go to war, stick with what we do well. That means invade, take care of the reason for the invasion, and get the hell out. We don't have an obligation to rebuild. That only encourages countries to provoke us to invade, because they want new infrastructure. If the problem returns, or if another problem pops up, invade again - hell, we're good at it, aren't we? Then get the hell out before any military personnel get killed.

rkzenrage 03-27-2007 06:47 PM

Exactly.

Jinx, a lot of people has issues with dependent origination and accountability... we live in a society of "it's not really my fault" and it is a sickness we need to get rid of ASAP because it will be the root of our downfall. It is killing our education system and that will rot our whole nation(s).
We must always own our actions and decisions. Sure, some things are harder for some than others... that has NOTHING to do with accountability, how hard something is means squat.

Bullitt 03-27-2007 09:03 PM

That the relationship is over and married by 24, 5 kids by 30 is not a good idea.
(unpopular with my now ex girlfriend)

TheMercenary 03-27-2007 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by melidasaur (Post 326999)
Hence why there are too many lawyers and doctors.

Well there may very well be to many lawyers, but we need more docotors. There are not enough people going into medicine anymore because there are to many lawyers.:D

cowhead 03-28-2007 12:26 AM

hell yeah rkzenrage, hit that on the head. sometimes it's really really unpleasant... but one must own up to ones actions.

xoxoxoBruce 03-28-2007 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by rkzenrage (Post 326296)
Prostitution is illegal because of religion

Then it must be legal in China.

xoxoxoBruce 03-28-2007 02:47 AM

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Originally Posted by jinx (Post 327014)
Evolution thru natural selection counts for human beings too.

Every decision that you've made up to this point, have led you to this point.

There are plenty of times when you are subject to the decisions of others, where you have absolutely no control, that will lead you to this point.

Spexxvet 03-28-2007 08:14 AM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 327230)
There are plenty of times when you are subject to the decisions of others, where you have absolutely no control, that will lead you to this point.

That's pretty rare, though I'll concede that sometimes you have very little control. Do you have an example?

Spexxvet 03-28-2007 08:17 AM

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Originally Posted by jinx (Post 327014)
Evolution thru natural selection counts for human beings too.

Every decision that you've made up to this point, have led you to this point.

No way! God made us what we are, and controls use completely - it says so in a musem in Kentuccky!:dunce: :crazy: :nuts: [/sarcasm]

glatt 03-28-2007 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 327158)
Well there may very well be to many lawyers, but we need more docotors. There are not enough people going into medicine anymore because there are to many lawyers.:D

It's far easier to become a lawyer.

Happy Monkey 03-28-2007 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet (Post 327270)
That's pretty rare, though I'll concede that sometimes you have very little control. Do you have an example?

Where and when and to whom you were born?

Sundae 03-28-2007 10:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet (Post 327270)
That's pretty rare, though I'll concede that sometimes you have very little control. Do you have an example?

When the company you work for is sold to a rival company, making the Directors millionaires and leaving you out of a job.

I had a choice whether to start that job, but no choice or control over how I left it.

DanaC 03-28-2007 11:09 AM

When you are driving carefully down a road and a drunk driver crashes into your car. Yes you chose to drive....no you didn't have control over the `crash.

When your baby is born severely disabled and requiring a lifetime of medical attention and assistance.

When you suffer from an inherited condition which has an affect on how you can live your life.

If you get attacked by some random individual on the tube.

rkzenrage 03-28-2007 11:14 AM

How you react to and your attitude toward those instances are far more powerful and lasting in your life than the actual occurrences themselves.

DanaC 03-28-2007 11:15 AM

I think there's some truth to that.

Spexxvet 03-28-2007 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by jinx (Post 327014)
Every decision that you've made up to this point, have led you to this point.

Other than the example of being born, Jinx's point is valid. I chose the job, putting myself in a position to lose it when it was taken over. I chose to drive on that road, at that time. It's not that I controlled what happened, but my decisions put me there.

Phil 03-28-2007 12:25 PM

the working classes' role is to support and uphold the wealthy.

xoxoxoBruce 03-28-2007 10:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet (Post 327270)
That's pretty rare, though I'll concede that sometimes you have very little control. Do you have an example?

Think about it next time they slip the handcuffs on and you have no idea why.
Or you spend thirty years building a business and the government passes a law that puts you out of business.
How about when your spouse goes out for a pack of smokes and never comes back.
Or when your mother dips you in protection, all but your heel.

TheMercenary 03-29-2007 08:05 AM

birth sex death

Spexxvet 03-29-2007 08:12 AM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 327732)
Think about it next time they slip the handcuffs on and you have no idea why.
Or you spend thirty years building a business and the government passes a law that puts you out of business.
How about when your spouse goes out for a pack of smokes and never comes back.
Or when your mother dips you in protection, all but your heel.

Are you abdicating responsibilty for those things? Is it that God works in mysterious ways? Or coincidence? Shit happens?

You did have some influence in all those things. Your choices put you there. It may have not worked according to plan, but you did make choices, and those choices had those results.

Pie 03-29-2007 08:48 AM

You are responsible for your actions, not their outcomes.

TheMercenary 03-29-2007 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Pie (Post 327806)
You are responsible for your actions, not their outcomes.

And that, my friends, is what is wrong with America today.

DanaC 03-29-2007 10:28 AM

Don't see why. Clearly you have absolute responsibility and control over your actions: unless you have a crystal ball you are unlikely to be able to predict all the myriad outcomes from every single action. The Sliding Doors moments, so to speak.

Pie 03-29-2007 10:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Pie (Post 327806)
You are responsible for your actions, not their outcomes.

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 327809)
And that, my friends, is what is wrong with America today.

Take it another way -- you are only responsible for doing your absolute best in all circumstances. What happens as a result of that is not yours, either for blame or praise. You own your actions and nothing else.

How is this a problem for America? :eyebrow:

elSicomoro 03-29-2007 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 327890)
unless you have a crystal ball

As a matter of fact, I do have a crystal ball...it doesn't tell me anything, but it sure is pretty.

HungLikeJesus 03-29-2007 11:14 AM

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Originally Posted by Pie (Post 327916)
Take it another way -- you are only responsible for doing your absolute best in all circumstances. What happens as a result of that is not yours, either for blame or praise. You own your actions and nothing else.

How is this a problem for America? :eyebrow:

This implies that one cannot possibly predict or anticipate the consequences of their actions.

For example, cane toads were imported into Australia "from South America during the 1930s in a failed attempt to control beetles on Australia's northern sugar cane plantations. The poisonous toads have proven fatal to Australia's delicate ecosystems, killing millions of native animals from snakes to the small crocodiles that eat them." http://www.livescience.com/animalwor...iant_toad.html

Were the importers of the toads not responsible for the negative results of introducing a foreign species? (Same with the rabbits.)

Undertoad 03-29-2007 11:23 AM

(btw, we are on target for a cane toad iotd tomorrow)

TheMercenary 03-29-2007 11:26 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pie (Post 327916)
Take it another way -- you are only responsible for doing your absolute best in all circumstances. What happens as a result of that is not yours, either for blame or praise. You own your actions and nothing else.

How is this a problem for America? :eyebrow:

So you get in a car and drive drunk. You are responsible for that action. An hour later as you drive you kill a mother of three and her children in a head on collision. You say you are not responsible. How?

Sundae 03-29-2007 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 327967)
So you get in a car and drive drunk. You are responsible for that action. An hour later as you drive you kill a mother of three and her children in a head on collision. You say you are not responsible. How?

Action - driving while drunk
Result - Head on collision and death of innocent people
Conclusion - The driver is fully responsible because he made a decision that was illegal and immoral knowing that his ability was impaired

Action - Driving your kids to the swimming pool
Result - Hit by a drunk driver and killed along with your children
Conclusion - the mother took an action she believed was healthy and responsible. Her children would be alive if she hadn't signed them up for swimming lessons but she is not responsible for their deaths, despite the fact that her action led to it.

TheMercenary 03-29-2007 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 327975)
Action - driving while drunk
Result - Head on collision and death of innocent people
Conclusion - The driver is fully responsible because he made a decision that was illegal and immoral knowing that his ability was impaired

Action - Driving your kids to the swimming pool
Result - Hit by a drunk driver and killed along with your children
Conclusion - the mother took an action she believed was healthy and responsible. Her children would be alive if she hadn't signed them up for swimming lessons but she is not responsible for their deaths, despite the fact that her action led to it.

Goes both ways eh?

Sundae 03-29-2007 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by TheMercenary (Post 327976)
Goes both ways eh?

Oh yes - but that's what I think Pie was saying. If you are doing the best you can, you hope that your actions don't have bad consequences. But you can't guarantee it.

TheMercenary 03-29-2007 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 327979)
Oh yes - but that's what I think Pie was saying. If you are doing the best you can, you hope that your actions don't have bad consequences. But you can't guarantee it.

Ok, if that is the case I get it. It did not read that way when first posted to me. Makes sense.

HungLikeJesus 03-29-2007 12:26 PM

We all drive almost every day. We all know the risks of being on the road. But what percentage of drivers take action to improve their driving skills (winter driving course, defensive driving course, etc.) to reduce those risks?

Since many collisions could have been avoided by a driver with advanced training, those of us who don't make that effort bear an increased percentage of the responsibility when we are involved in an accident.

A similar arguement can be made for self-defense training.

Pie 03-29-2007 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 327979)
Oh yes - but that's what I think Pie was saying. If you are doing the best you can, you hope that your actions don't have bad consequences. But you can't guarantee it.

Exactly. You are responsible for doing the best you can. Ethically, morally, and every which other way. Always.

If something bad happens as a result, it is not your fault.

If something good happens, it is not to your praise.

However, if you don't do the best you can by your own yardstick, you are always to blame, even if nothing bad comes of it.

:2cents:

rkzenrage 03-29-2007 04:57 PM

Yayyyyy... Pie absolved me!
I can pull the trigger and that is all I'm responsible for!
That bad ol' bullet killed em'.

HungLikeJesus 03-29-2007 05:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Pie (Post 328160)
However, if you don't do the best you can by your own yardstick, you are always to blame, even if nothing bad comes of it.

:2cents:

So you seem to agree that, since most drivers don't do their best to improve their driving skills, they are at least partly to blame when they are in an accident?

Shawnee123 03-29-2007 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Pie (Post 328160)
Exactly. You are responsible for doing the best you can. Ethically, morally, and every which other way. Always.

If something bad happens as a result, it is not your fault.

If something good happens, it is not to your praise.

However, if you don't do the best you can by your own yardstick, you are always to blame, even if nothing bad comes of it.

Where in this set of absolutes does one get to think "you know, I really worked hard for that outcome. I deserve to feel good about it."?

xoxoxoBruce 03-29-2007 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet (Post 327785)
Are you abdicating responsibilty for those things? Is it that God works in mysterious ways? Or coincidence? Shit happens?

You did have some influence in all those things. Your choices put you there. It may have not worked according to plan, but you did make choices, and those choices had those results.

Oh of course, why didn't I see that. If he hadn't chosen to breath this morning he wouldn't have died this afternoon. It's so clear.

Well then, by your logic, I didn't make the decision to be born so everything that happens to me is someone else's fault.

Happy Monkey 03-29-2007 08:13 PM

It seems to be a bit of a tautology. It's true, but it says nothing outside of its own validity.

Pie 03-29-2007 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by HungLikeJesus (Post 328197)
So you seem to agree that, since most drivers don't do their best to improve their driving skills, they are at least partly to blame when they are in an accident?

Yep.

Pie 03-29-2007 08:37 PM

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Originally Posted by rkzenrage (Post 328192)
Yayyyyy... Pie absolved me!
I can pull the trigger and that is all I'm responsible for!
That bad ol' bullet killed em'.

No, your action was unethical -- if you believe suicide is unethical.

Pie 03-29-2007 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Happy Monkey (Post 328259)
It seems to be a bit of a tautology. It's true, but it says nothing outside of its own validity.

I think you were responding to me?
It does absolve you from guilt over things that were unforeseeable. I have to keep reminding my mother of this from time to time -- you did the best with the information you had -- at the time. You can't beat yourself up forever for things that you didn't know, things that you couldn't have known.

If your actions are good, honorable, ethical, moral, worthwhile... you have lived up to your highest possibility. Doesn't matter if your life sucked, if you made a billion dollars, if you were loved, if you died in a ditch. What you do is all that matters.

Kingswood 03-29-2007 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 327975)
Action - driving while drunk

Illegal
Quote:

Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 327975)
Action - Driving your kids to the swimming pool

Legal

That's the difference.

xoxoxoBruce 03-29-2007 10:28 PM

Being a legal act does not remove any responsibility for your actions.

Shawnee123 03-30-2007 07:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Shawnee123 (Post 328199)
Where in this set of absolutes does one get to think "you know, I really worked hard for that outcome. I deserve to feel good about it."?

Am I on ignore, or invisible, or is this not a valid question?

Griff 03-30-2007 08:53 AM

Sometimes it's easier to ignore the tough questions.


opinion: The remaining small government conservatives in the GOP are completely out of the loop. They represent a large number of voters and need to assert themselves.

elSicomoro 03-30-2007 08:55 AM

I haven't heard much out of Ron Paul recently, but isn't he running for President?

Griff 03-30-2007 09:04 AM

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Originally Posted by sycamore (Post 328416)
I haven't heard much out of Ron Paul recently, but isn't he running for President?

Don't mock my silly belief system lube boy.

elSicomoro 03-30-2007 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Griff (Post 328418)
Don't mock my silly belief system lube boy.

I'm not mocking you, drunkard. Depending on the candidates, I might be inclined to vote for someone like Paul.


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