SouthOfNoNorth |
11-14-2005 12:09 PM |
tried the "finger thing" before. it doesn't do a lot for me, mainly because it's a difficult thing to get comfortable with. a girl who knows what she's doing *can* directly stimulate you that way, as we all know, and it can be pretty intense. i can think of one instance of some oral interaction (the regular kind) in combination with this where it was pretty amazing. i think my eyes went crossed for a bit. but yeah, it's hard to be comfortable with.
ladies, many guys will say they're interested in this, whether the know that they like it or not, just because it's a wrong or dirty thing to do. it's just a novelty. i've had it often enough through dating someone that was into it that i know that i prefer vaginal intercourse. also, this is definitely something you have to work your way up to i.e. "finger work" for several sessions first to loosen things up and get comfortable with the idea. a guy should never just jump in and go crazy. even if you're practiced that's a bad idea since it's not built for that kind of umm.........punishment? i think if more guys knew how to approach it, more women might find out they enjoy it and be open to the idea. dunno.
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