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What I said before is perfectly coherent with what I said more recently . I have simply gone into more detail . And I include myself in the pack . I am white , my converation is superficial , I no doubt think I am more educated than I am . I can be humorous and talented within those limited parameters .
What's wrong with that ? |
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It is clear to me that everyone on this board shares a strong desire to be heard.
A large majority also wishes to be understood. Some of those choose listening to others in their search to find willing ears, thereby reinforcing the hopes of the first group, and the cycle repeats. |
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We value the ones who read and rarely post. We want to be those people too.Reading and not posting so much. I think maybe if those people would post we would sit back and read awhile instead. |
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Excerpt from the song Love Is In The Air: "Love is in the air In the rising of the sun Love is in the air When the day is nearly done And I don't know if you're an illusion Don't know if I see it true But you're something that I must believe in And you're there when I reach out for you" :thankyou: all, NoBoxes. |
I wish to ammend my earlier post. I stand by those remarks with respect to the part of the population of this board that takes part in the posting.
There is another part of the population of this board I had overlooked, not being a member myself; they are known as guests. Those lurkers are certainly part of the family, but demonstrate no desire to be heard here. I can only guess about the values they share. Perhaps they're shy, or lack confidence in their opinions, or maybe they agree so completely with the posts that nothing further need be said. Just guesses, all. But I overlooked them before and now I include them. Why are they here, what values they hold, much less share can only be know in the past tense, when they post and tell us, thereby saying goodbye to the mysterious passivity of the land of the lurkers. |
I think about twice as many people read as post, at this point. I agree that they are valuable and interesting and I wish we knew more about them.
Y'all should know that the high numbers of guests listed, are about twice as high as they should be, because at any given time we are being spidered by Yahoo! and Google, and those spiders look like guests to the system. Yahoo! in particular seems to have no clue that the threads from 2002 do not contain any new information, so they just boldly re-spider the entire site a lot. |
Now you're generalizing the Guests. I think some of them (a lot?) just have no interest in participating here as they wind up here after googling something or another and just read whatever it is that was returned as a search result.
I'd also wager a good guess that many guests come to see the IotD, that's what got me here. Then, obviously, there are those that do come back (frequently?) and lurk. For those, yes, I agree with what you said, we cannot know what it is that is keeping them silent. Shyness, lack of confidence, agreeing completely, it may all very well be. They could also just not be interested in actively participating, they're happy with reading some bits here and there and then going on to someplace else. |
Boobs seem to be a common value here.
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I come read without logging in until I find something I wish to respond to. Even while composing a post, I get logged out and have to log back in to post it.
So it often looks like I'm here as a guest...even when I'm here surfing...which is a LOT :cool: . I try not to run my mouth when I have nothing much useful to say, so I'm not a high quantity poster (luckily for you all!). Stormie Oh, and I have boobs as well. |
"It's all about the dowas."
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Hi peeps! Was a lurker but now a poster.
Should the tolerant tolerate the intolerant? Of course not! That's how the nasty buggers get into power. I follow Nature's dictum; variety, variety, variety! But just like in Nature, when something gets too big for its boots something else comes along and undoes its laces. Nothing like falling flat on your face to ruin pomposity and seriousness. One life, use it or lose it. And allow others to do the same! |
Hi, Tin Man! Welcome! (I have to be the Official Greeter as xobruce is probably still a-bed ;)
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