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3F - Rich doesn't knapp. I had another brain slip. I was thinking about you
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Foot is right Rich. You don't look well. I hope you feel better soon. xxx
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Lovely, as always. :)
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NOVI got its name from being Railroad station #6, btw.
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...and it's lss than half an hour away and i bet you drove right past Ann Arbor......
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I thought of you as I drove past the Ann Arbor sign down 96 trying to stay on the road, the weather was so horrible Thursday. I don't even know how I made it there! I had 4 dogs with me and I thought well Monster does not like dogs so I better keep driving ;)
Thanks Bruce :blush: |
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I know I'm vain, but I worked too damn hard not to show off. So, here's me trying to show off my 25 1/2" waist. Taken this afternoon. :D
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OMG!! You are so beautiful...
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Woo Hoo. :sweat:
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wow
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@ Lola, gorgeous
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YaY Lola!
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@lola:
Ah.....boy....yoi...yoing! Sent using magic. |
Lovely Lola.
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Is that a white ribbon on the side or is that a semi-transparent panel?
Very slinky either way. Lola you have always been gorgeous, but I'm so happy you feel it now and that makes all the work you've done worthwhile. You go girl. (Do Vietnamese Daddies have shotguns?) |
@Lola you look fabulous!
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Thank you everyone for your comments. :)
Sundae: The white part is my pants. The dress splits from the waist down so there's a front and back panel. |
Hubba Hubba Lola !!!
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You look stunning lola. :)
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outstanding!
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End of the month and the pantry is kind of low. I lucked up on a fat little buck at dusk. I cooked him whole on a spit over the fire. Plus I had some left over greens and cornbread
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Here I am skinning him out with an obsidian knife I made
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mmmm.... yum!
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The Road Runner would be proud!
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By "buck" I thought you meant deer, and I was very surprised to try to picture you cooking such a thing whole on a spit...
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Bunny slippers are sooooooooooooooooo comfortable and warm
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Looks good Sarge. It's great that you have that option.
I have to say the photo of you is a little Blair Witch though. |
Hey I live in the woods and I think the Blair Witch Project was made where my trailer is parked!!! LOL. I was really showing off the obsidian knife I had made and how sharp it was
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Yes but by Blair Witch I mean lacking focus and a bit pants :lol:
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You are an absolute vision in that dress! :love: |
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Come on Lola, show us a little leg. Pleeeeeezzzzzzz!!! BTW, did you get the "special picture" i sent you on your phone?
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so, i put some holes in my ears? |
Is that a question?
they look good. |
Nice, I have one earring myself. Not especially feminine, or androgynous for that matter. But you look kinda cute in that shot.
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Are you using a lip plumper (cosmetic not surgical) there?
Looks good. If not, Benefit have some real zingers. They tingle and increase the bloodflow or something. Enough to make you look like you've just been kissed roughly. As you do in that photo! I'm not mad on piercings, but I like the two you have. |
There's a third in the other lobe, too. I have naturally fairly fat lips, haven't needed to plump them much really, i think. I usually go with a little bit of powder, some lipstick or gloss, some concealer for my shadow/stubble, and some mascara.
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If those are natural then you probably don't need plumpers. But try one anyway. You'd look even more kissable!
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Lola - Ref that picture you sent to my phone:
I'd eat it!!!!:censored: |
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Btw, Ibram, VERY CUTE! :thumb2: |
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@ Sarge: that looks awesome. Love the knife!
@ Ibica: damn kid, you're so cute it should be illegal. @ Lola: God's teeth, you are stunning. I mean you always look lovely in photos (don't recall ever seeing one of you where you didn;t look pretty) but you look like a Bond girl in that shot. Drop dead gorgeous. One of the Beautiful People. |
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I know you mean that good-naturedly, but I have to lodge my objection to it, on the grounds that comments like that are A.) essentially binarist in a way that makes me uncomfortable, and B.) is the sort of comment that, by boiling identity down to genitalia, contributes to a massive sense of trans* erasure and sex-essentialism that makes me very uncomfortable.
I'm trying to not get on your case here but still make clear why I think that's a damaging comment, please don't take it personally, I know what you meant, but... I think you could stand to rethink the expression of your sentiment a little. I feel like what you're saying is, on a fundamental level, "well, whatever you call yourself, you're man enough for me", by boiling it down to my plumbing. I understand that your identity as gay puts you in as awkward a position when it comes to your attractions towards the trans* community, the same way it puts a straight girl in an awkward position - but taking an essentialist, binarist position as justification only further marginalizes the trans* community. |
He called you a thing with a penis. Utterly objectifying you. I don't see any gender language there at all, binarist, trans* or otherwise.
Yeah. Humor, or at least attempted humor. |
I see the comment as a reflection of Sheldon's sexuality. He says, if you don't have a penis he's not interested, cause that's what he likes.
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ibramica, you gotta stop smoking that shit.
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Not so very long ago, "i don't mind gay people, I just don't want them rubbing it in my face", or any other variant of the "as long as they don't do it around me" argument, would have been a fairly progressive point of view. But now, to most people, it sounds dated and prejudicial - like it assumes that, while straight people keep sex private, gay people are likely to take it too far, or do it in public, or try to coerce uninterested parties into participation. I really hope that one of these days, comparing a sensitivity to gender issues to being high will sound equally dated. And even if you think I'm being ridiculous by standing up for them, I'm going to KEEP being vocal about defending my identity and on trans* issues that I think aren't being adequately represented here. You can put me on the loony fringe if you like, but I at least want to make the "fringe", progressive, queer, activist trans* point of view heard. The same way one oversensitive nigger ain't gonna keep everyone from saying "black", I don't expect one oversensitive tranny to keep you guys from straying into what i consider vaguely offensive, trans*-erasive, sexist commentary. I know the Cellar is going to be a lot more accepting and positive than most communities. But I also know there's a pretty strong anti-political-correctness sentiment around here, and I'm not gonna go off in tears just because a few people think I take my problems with the genderification and the politicization of language that most people take for granted overly seriously. |
Ibram, I really like you and think you're a lovely fella, but I reckon you need to get over yourself a bit. You're taking it too far, and you're going to make your road very difficult if you're going to take offence at harmlessly humourous comments like Sheldons. Honestly, there are a lot more battles worth fighting than the one you've created here.
Yes I understand you're on a journey and you're finding your way and it's hard but seriously, you have to still be able to make and take a joke, not just on your own terms, but on the terms of the people who mean you no harm at all. Again, I honestly mean no offence to you. I don't really care what your sexuality is. I don't care what anyone's sexuality is. I really just want to be able to have a discourse without having to worry about who I called a he when I should have called him a she or whatever. if I'm talking to you, then 'you' are what you are, and what I address you as is of no consequence and has no bearing on what you see yourself as. The only person who really has to be happy about you is you. Everyone else can go get knotted. |
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