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wolf 05-20-2004 01:25 PM

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Originally posted by DanaC
She is? oh. Apologies to all my fellow feminists but maybe she has PMT.
Don't even fucking go there.

Women are able to get pissed off exclusive of having or expecting their menses.

Playing to the cliche/stereotype is not appropriate, and certainly something I did not expect to hear from you, you stoned, socialist, asshat.

Happy Monkey 05-20-2004 01:28 PM

What are cliches and stereotypes for, if not to play to?

ladysycamore 05-20-2004 02:38 PM

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Originally posted by OnyxCougar
Why is it that whenever a woman is bitchy, it's chalked up to PMS? That irritates the shit outta me.
Precisely. Even when I had a period, I didn't have PMS that badly. If I was pissed, then I was pissed, and not because of some goddamned hormone imbalance.

Bascially it boils down to this folks: not everything you say is going to be taken in the context that you mean it all of the time. You may be hitting someone on a day that they are not up to "playing around" (and god knows I have days like that..just ask Syc). ;)

DanaC 05-20-2004 06:23 PM

What can I say :) I get really bad moodswings and hormone problems atthat time. Its usually what clues me in to when I am due ( cause I dont pay much attentionto calendars) The first I know about it is usually I have launched a completely unwarranted atttack at someone close to me and am already trying to hold back the tears....Just the way I am, so thats where my mind leapt to. If thats not your experience of it then you would likely just see it as a stereotype. It is a stereotype but that doesnt mean some us dont have that experience.

lumberjim 05-20-2004 06:52 PM

the thing i always found interesting about PMS is that it is a self fulfilling prophecy of sorts. by identifying it and giving it a name....PMS....we are perpetuating it's existence. Even though most women will kill you slowly if you accuse her of suffering from it, they have no problem talking about it when it's not them.

and stop talking about menstruation in a thread with my name in the title.....i think i'm starting to develop breasts.

DanaC 05-20-2004 06:58 PM

Mostly the problem comes in when a woman is accused of or assumed to be menstruating because she has expressed annoyance/anger/snappiness/emotional distress etc usually assumed by men ( not always) and usually for no other reason than that the woman has engaged in an overt display of negative emotion. ...This of course has been extended to include political passion or frustration ....

if on the other hand a woman is displaying what appear to uncharacteristically explosive behaviours and responses to situations and stimuli that havent changed significantly there are a number of possible causes and PMS is on the list.

xoxoxoBruce 05-20-2004 07:10 PM

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and stop talking about menstruation in a thread with my name in the title.....
Why, rag on LJ works.:haha:

blue 05-20-2004 07:29 PM

I'd give an arm for an easy exuse for being a assmunch once in a while, and 1 every month?!?

Sign me up.....geez, I already pick up the maxi pacs anyhow.

No seriously..sign me up...this couldn't possibly go wrong, right?

marichiko 05-20-2004 07:39 PM

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Originally posted by wolf


Don't even fucking go there.

Women are able to get pissed off exclusive of having or expecting their menses.

Playing to the cliche/stereotype is not appropriate, and certainly something I did not expect to hear from you, you stoned, socialist, asshat.

Jeez, Wolf, a bit touchy today, are we? I always figured the whole PMS (PMT) thing was a crock, so I've never taken the mention of it very seriously. You give the syndrome more power than it deserves by blowing up that way over it. No hard feelings or anything, that's just how I see it.

xoxoxoBruce 05-20-2004 08:21 PM

I makes sense, if you don't feel well physically, it could alter your mood, so there's probably some basis. But, terribly overused as an explanation/insult. That being said, I have known a couple of women that do an absolute Jekyll/Hyde, like clockwork.:worried:

Clodfobble 05-20-2004 09:31 PM

I'll admit I go pretty wacko, but instead of getting bitchy I get emotional/depressed. Curled-up-on-the-bed-crying-for-no-reason depressed. Doesn't happen every single month, but the pattern is undeniable. Usually lasts about two days and then it's gone.

xoxoxoBruce 05-21-2004 03:29 AM

Sometimes, I find I'm in a bad mood and I realize there's no reason for it. Then I check the calendar and find out it's full moon. A soon as I realize that, I'm OK for the rest of the day. Yeah, weird.:haha:

DanaC 05-21-2004 08:40 AM

*nods* I find as soon as I realise where I am at in the month and that that is likely the cause of my depression/underlying sense of rage I am usually ok after that. It's when I am flying off the handle or feeling crushingly depressed and dont have anything to explain it that it is difficult to handle. Once i know what is behind it I can ride it out without too much unpleasantness

Heh. I had a next door neighbour years ago used to get really odd and aggressive around te lunar month. Was unnerving. He would be this really sweet guy most of the time ( in his late 70's) but then round about the full moon he'd become insulting, verbally abusive and downright unreasonable. Used to drive his wife loco

Yelof 05-21-2004 09:16 AM

Right now my mood is pretty shit, caused in part by the hot heavy high pressure weather we are having, it gets to me somehow, also I don't sleep well. Anytime soon now an electrical storm is going to start and I will feel better.:(

kerosene 05-21-2004 10:29 AM

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Originally posted by lumberjim
i think i'm starting to develop breasts.
Those are from my CD, remember? :)


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