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OneWittyWoman 12-08-2003 10:41 PM

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Originally posted by juju
Hey, at least now you get to cash in on the "I almost died" sex. Just how often does that come around?
OMG. I am crying I'm laughing so hard.

OnyxCougar 12-08-2003 10:51 PM

Stacy, honey, relax. I don't think anyone started out pissy. You're just really worried about your man, and that's fine. Make it the second best night of his life and post the video tomorrow.

No one is upset with you (except maybe wolf, but it doesn't sound like it). Just smile and realize that although this is a HUGE thing for you, it's a group of posts for us. We don't know you yet, you've not been here that long, and I don't think anyone here has met you irl. So although we like you, this is not earth shattering for us.

Now, if something happened to UT (God forbid), everyone would be freaking out right now. That's because a large portion of the population here knows him irl.

So calm down, ok? It's gonna be ok. We're all going to wisecrack and make jokes.

See the "how you handle stress" or somesuch thread. Many of us use laughter and humor to make people we care about feel better.

It's going to be ok, really. Try to roll with us a little more, ok?

insoluble 12-09-2003 12:12 AM

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Originally posted by staceyv
you're not funny. now i have to wait until midnight or 1 am because of all these friggin delays. i did'nt want to worry my family with the news until i knew for sure he was okay and i already told everybody i knew, okay? and i've been sitting here all day just waiting and waiting for the boat to get back, and it's not like i can watch a movie or think about anything else right now. so THAT'S why i posted that. some people just LOOK for things to pick apart, just LOOK for ways to bring somebody down. trust me, I'm only here subjecting myself to this bullshit because my baby's not back yet.

So are you more concerned about your husband as a person or about your own personal sense of anxiety and loss? Just curious.

Happy Monkey 12-09-2003 07:02 AM

Oh, just stop being a jerk, insoluble.

lumberjim 12-09-2003 09:15 AM

STACY,
is he back home now? safe and sound?....i was worried for you

staceyv 12-09-2003 06:52 PM

he is back home and our storybook ending is complete. we are both very happy. he said he will do whatever makes me happy, so we decided that he would get a diferent non-life threatening job. i was on the news twice last night and this morning too. kind of cool. i got my baby back baby back baby back :) ;) :p

xoxoxoBruce 12-09-2003 06:56 PM

Your after-sex demeanor is much more pleasant. :)

juju 12-09-2003 06:59 PM

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Originally posted by wolf
Let him decide whether he wants to remain a fisherman. It is his choice, not yours. Forcing him not do to something he wants to do will remain between you and him forever. Actually, your marriage will be most likely dramatically shortened if you do so.
Quote:

Originally posted by staceyv
wolf, i think you are extremely insensitive . also, i never said he was not going to be a fisherman anymore. i don't control him, we work together. he can do whatever he wants. we watched the perfect storm together two weeks ago, by the way.
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Originally posted by staceyv
he said he will do whatever makes me happy, so we decided that he would get a diferent non-life threatening job.
It all makes sense now...

ladysycamore 12-09-2003 07:00 PM

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Originally posted by xoxoxoBruce
Your after-sex demeanor is much more pleasant. :)
:doit:

Sorry, all I saw after reading that was the above...lol! :D

And maybe this:

:blunt: (think aftersex ciggie)

staceyv 12-09-2003 07:01 PM

oh yeah, that was a highlight i forgot to mention.:D :o :o :o :D

staceyv 12-09-2003 07:03 PM

and juju, it WAS his choice. i told him i wouldn't want to talk him into doing anything that he would later resent me for. he said there's nothing to miss about fishing and that he wants me to be happy.

Undertoad 12-09-2003 07:12 PM

Stop daveing her, juju!

juju 12-09-2003 07:20 PM

I'm sorry.

staceyv 12-09-2003 07:38 PM

apology accepted. i'm too happy to be mad at ya

insoluble 12-09-2003 09:12 PM

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Originally posted by Happy Monkey
Oh, just stop being a jerk, insoluble.
yeah yeah - i know. Just trying to stay in line with the web sadist profile :)


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