Sorry, Ali.

HUGS! Things will get better and soon you'll see that.

I agree.

Been there. Time makes things suck a lot less.

hugs

Take notes.

So that you don't find yourself in this position in life, again.

:comfort:

Well, his stuff is gone and I cleaned out the room and other areas of the house where he's been. There's still some areas to work on, but I guess it's time to put my feet up. I made 30 boxes of cupcakes today for tomorrows market, so now it's time to rest. I have a vodka which is nice.

Max went with Daryl tonight, and i think that was a good idea. For both of them.

More room for cake supplies. You're going to be just fine.

maybe you should exorcize the ghost by baking a life-sized perfect guy cake (maybe not completely accurate proportions ;) ) and putting it in that room and posting a pic on facebook. (Then hold a massive party to eat it)

There is a precedent for food replacements for humans being therapeutic and far more useful and interesting than the original: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kmys4LH9jTE

Are you going to convert that room and start taking in studly boarders?

There's THIS studly board errr.

Kind of funny that you'd put a pic of a Samoan man, considering that's what my first husband was. Haha

I thought he looked Samoan, but didn't know. Funny coincidence.

Pretty sure mine wasn't in the same league as DJ. haha

Hang in there Ali. One foot in front of the other and all that. Focus on those cake, pies and tea parties. Soon enough you'll be able to buy the man of your dreams - for a few hours anyway ;)