Look after yourself Trilby. Its important. Xx

*hugs*

We're here when you need to talk. Rest up now.

Thanks for checking in.

Be kind to yourself.

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Very glad to hear from you Trilby. Please take care, please. 'sgonna be ok. Eventually.

I am so glad to hear from you today, Tril. You had me worried. Sad to hear about Autumn

I was glad to see your post.

Stay in bed if it helps. It's a rough mourning, losing a beloved pet. Remember you are loved.

God to hear from you, Trilby. Sending hugs.

Sending wishes for peace your way, Tril. Take care.

Spoke to Bri today. Still in pieces of course.
Have told her to call or post whenever she wants to give her pain a voice.

Am truly relieved to see Tril post here, and that Sundae has managed to speak to her. My heart goes out to you, Tril. Coddle yourself and stay in bed all you want. X


Sent by thought transference

She's spoken to Dani too, as a recently bereaved pet-owner.
Sorry to talk about you as if you're not here babba. But I think today will definitely be a duvet day for you.

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Losing someone you love is extremely difficult. Mourn but please don't blame yourself. You may not be able to accept it now and no reason can alleviate the pain. However, we all have to use reasons and religion or whatever help us get through life, where there are so many unexplainable things going on. Don't think the lost of Autumn as your fault. Maybe it is his time to go. Even if you had a lease on him, he may go some other way. I hope you'll be able to feel less pain in the near future.

HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZ

I'm sorry I missed this when it happened. Let yourself feel the pain of loss then recall the sweetness of your friend and keep that.

Trilby, I'm so sad reading this thread. Losing a beloved pet can be almost like losing a family member. It helps me to write a little poem or story about the 4-legged friend whose loss I mourn. Maybe doing that would help you also, especially since you're a good writer.

Hope you get beyond the drinking plus pills very quickly - like yesterday. I'm sending good thoughts your way.

be well and strong woman! this, like other things, shall pass and get better. remember i got locked up for crimes i did not commit and lost my mother august 1st of 2007 while i was on hiatus from society. that sucked major balls. but you know what? i got past the pain and today am happy and thankful for such a great woman in my life and i remember her always....everyday.

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