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It's a depressing thought, but generally speaking if you look at any deeply patriarchal society, mothers are often the ones who hold it up.
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Yup. I remember my first abusive husband, a Saudi, telling me about his mother's advice. She told him to break his wife's spirit completely, then reshape her into what he wanted her to be.
My response was...but then I wouldn't be anything like the woman you married, would I? . I was 18 yrs old. Anyway, a lot of women just can't see past their personal disapproval and narrow-mindedness. |
Slightly OT, but I was reading an article the other day about women who are proud to be housewives and look after their husbands.
I was put off by the passive-aggressive tone TBH. But I did wonder what they were teaching their children. One woman mentioned teaching her daughters cooking and how to make sweet treats for Daddy. Well, that's lovely - of course. And if you want them to grow up into a housewife like you that's also education. But she also had a son. I wonder what she was teaching him? I wonder if he was treated in a similar way to Daddy? I have no personal issues with women who treat their family as their job. Bloody good luck to them, it's not an easy one and it's very important. It's the deification of the breadwinner that makes me cringe slightly. The majority of couples both have to work, and I'm not sure the example is a great one to set when this is likely to be the case. Oh, just as an aside, the three women featured were significantly younger than their spouses. One had married at 19, fresh out of 6th form. Couldn't help thinking that may have been a factor. |
Back in the 60s they started preaching women could have it all. I don't remember anyone pointing out how fucking hard it would be. I'm afraid many girls got the impression it was mandatory to have it all, when they should have noted they may have a choice. Sure a single mom has to, but others can choose to be a homemaker, or a business professional, there's certainly no shame in either choice.
If you do decide you want it all, it may be better not to have it all at once, but rather approach things in secession. The real progress is having choices. |
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Virtually identical to that of the DNC. This list is compiled by those who are charged with protecting them, not the RNC nor DNC.
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"Whole fruit"...
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They did not ban pies?
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They're turning away baseballs, and probably wouldn't let you bring a Chevy in the hall. :haha:
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And a "libertarian" that doesn't understand why women are telling the government to mind their own fucking business. :rolleyes:
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