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DanaC 09-25-2012 02:52 PM

Infi, I think the fact that you believe I am envious of Monster's family life says rather more about you than it does about me. It also shows me very clearly how little you know me.

I read that description of Monster's life and a number of things go through my mind.

1. It doesn't appeal to me at all. In fact, if you were to design a personal hell just for me, that description would do pretty well as a starting premise.

I don't mean that in a nasty way, because:

2. It's a truly lovely thing to see a couple who are genuinely into each other and into their kids and bonded into a strong family unit. All snippiness and hostility aside, I'm pleased for her. They have every right to feel proud and happy at the life they have built together.

It's just not something that appeals to me. I like my life. I am single because I choose to be. And I have no children because I chose not to. I am living about as close to my ideal life as it is possible to be, without 100k in the bank and a slightly bigger house with a garden for the dog.

That said:

3. If I did hanker for all that; if I was lonely and wishing I had a loving husband and kids to care for, then that would have been a singularly cruel thing to post.

Pico and ME 09-25-2012 05:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 831699)
Divisive. As in Divide.

What has happened to the world's spelling ability? And I'm not divisive. Snarky, sarcastic, and well, I guess I am divisive. That doesn't make me love you any less.

...wince...ummm, yeah, I had just gotten home from sharing a couple of pitchers of Dos Exxis with my husband. I blame the typos on the beer...happily. I had just finished my first day of work at Chrysler and we were celebrating.

infinite monkey 09-25-2012 05:41 PM

Dana, I don't think I meant specifically monster's life. Rereading it doesn't make much sense...I was being assy. ;)

And I wanted to write monster an ode because I do admire her.

But no, I've known all my life I didn't want kids...and I probably won't get married again. I just like to see it done right, and we do have some awesome parents in the cellar.

Scratch the envy remark, I was being catty. Scratch. Catty? Hehehee

DanaC 09-25-2012 05:45 PM

Fairy nuff :P

There's no claws for ill feline.

infinite monkey 09-25-2012 05:47 PM

Hahahhaa!

Purrfect. :needacatsmiliedarnit:

Happy Monkey 09-25-2012 05:54 PM

:biggrinha (the ears are tucked into the hat)

infinite monkey 09-25-2012 06:17 PM

The cat in the hat! And now we've come full circle: the hat theme!

footfootfoot 09-25-2012 09:23 PM

ohh let's all have a group hug.

henry quirk 09-26-2012 08:30 AM

"a group hug"
 
Sure!

Easier to slide a knife between the ribs and pick a pocket when every one's in a huddle... ;)

infinite monkey 09-26-2012 08:58 AM

Well that'll put a real damper on Kumbaya. :mad:

footfootfoot 09-26-2012 11:02 AM

Pollyanna

infinite monkey 09-26-2012 11:04 AM

Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm.

footfootfoot 09-26-2012 01:32 PM

Infy of FunnyFarm Brook

Trilby 09-26-2012 02:00 PM

Anne of Green Gables!

NOW we're getting somewhere!

Trilby 09-26-2012 02:01 PM

Let's describe our own domiciles in the style of alliteration. Fun, huh?

Trilby of Truly Falling Down House


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