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busterb 01-18-2012 09:52 PM

27 was 41 years ago. No idea what was going back then.

limey 01-19-2012 07:50 AM

27 was the year when:
I packed in a promising career because I could see it was headed towards things which I do not like to do;
I moved to the island where I now live for the first time: the first of four major relocations, the fourth of which brought me back here thirteen years later :);
I unceremoniously dumped my boyfriend of six years in a phone call, an action of which I am still ashamed 25 years later;
I bought my first car.
There have been a lot of ups and downs since then, but here I am, just where I wanted to be back then. Here. With a roof over my head. And an income. Un. Be. Lievable. Really.

Gravdigr 01-20-2012 03:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by busterb (Post 789058)
...was 41 years ago. No idea...

:lol2:

Sundae 01-21-2012 05:51 AM

I always feel apprehensive about this thread.
I've started posts and deleted, deleted, deleted.

I think it's because most people have moved on and improved their lives since 27.
I'd love to go back then and change everything.
I had money saved. I should have moved back home. I could have found the job I love and retrained as a teacher.

Of course going back in time would make me the same blinkered, trying to hang on individual I was then. So apart from being impossible it wouldn't work.

monster 01-21-2012 06:33 AM

Of course you can't move back in time and shouldn't. You could have found the job you love and retrained as a teacher, but it might not have turned out that way....

But why not try to be that person now, at 39? Age is just a number. Start saving, start training. You already have a job you love in a field relevant to your quest to become a teacher. I'd say at least one thrid of the student teachers who pass through our school are not typical student age.

Sundae 01-21-2012 06:38 AM

I am seriously considering my future now. I have 30 years work ahead of me.
I am positive, because I can be; on a scale of 10 I enjoy my job as a 9.
My goodness NO-ONE I worked with in Leicester or London could say that. ETA - no-one at my salary level.

So I'm not crippled with remorse. I'm looking into a future that is so much better than five years ago.

I suppose it's a bit like looking back at old photos and thinking "What was I worried about? I was so blessed!"
I can't imagine looking back on NOW and feeling regrets.

Trilby 01-21-2012 11:38 AM

When I was 27 I was blissfully ignorant of what a turn my life would take at 30.

I was working, going to school full time, had two in diapers and a husband who played on five (count 'em, FIVE) softball teams, a dart team, was a dedicated pool player and liked to follow the Dead in his "spare time," - wonder why that relationship tanked?

LOL.

Sorta.


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