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Pete Zicato 01-03-2012 10:25 PM

Plaid?

Pete Zicato 01-03-2012 10:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gravdigr (Post 784961)
I don't test people (intentionally:)).

I either trust 'em, or I don't. And if I don't, no testing required.

If you're talking about playing games, then I agree. But I do think there are ways to tell.

classicman 01-03-2012 11:09 PM

I'm torn between tall and strong....
I'll go with tall.

monster 01-03-2012 11:10 PM

I had no idea what I wanted in a partner until I met beest. I never tested him. 22 years together.

glatt 01-04-2012 07:50 AM

20 years with my partner. No test either. I just knew.

Undertoad 01-04-2012 07:58 AM

I don't think we know what we really want. I didn't until J came and made me feel good in a certain way. No not that way. Although she does.

regular.joe 01-04-2012 08:17 AM

Not everything can be quantified and qualified. I think it is a symptom of our society and culture today, everything can be quantified, reduced, decide upon and controlled. I agree with the others here that this testing for a relationship is not my style. Been married to Mrs. Joe for 18+ years now. Would not have missed it for the world. I wold say that the test is ongoing. Heck it's not even a test, it's more like a course. Yea, the course is still in session.

kerosene 01-04-2012 08:25 AM

Wasn't there a thread once about reducing compatibility to numbers? It had to be back in 2003-2004. anyone remember?

classicman 01-04-2012 09:58 AM

Anyone mentioned that what you want or believe is important at this particular moment in your life may/may not be relevant in 10, 20, 30 years? As you age your perspective, wants, needs... all change as do theirs. For example. the physical characteristics which may be important when 20-ish will be FAR LESS of a factor as one ages. Whereas the emotional, spiritual and ethical traits will be far more important.

sexobon 01-04-2012 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by classicman (Post 785082)
... the physical characteristics which may be important when 20-ish will be FAR LESS of a factor as one ages. ...

So, you're not hung up on appearance as long as they have the kind of legs you like.


(feet on one end and pussy on the other)

classicman 01-04-2012 11:32 AM

we talkin women or spiders?
Cuz spiders with those scary furry legs FREAK ME OUT at any age.

footfootfoot 01-04-2012 11:57 AM

#4 humble fail.

sexobon 01-04-2012 12:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by classicman (Post 785135)
we talkin women or spiders? ...

Highlight my previous post.

wolf 01-04-2012 02:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kerosene (Post 785062)
Wasn't there a thread once about reducing compatibility to numbers? It had to be back in 2003-2004. anyone remember?

I've found some success with the Political Compass, but I recognize it's not for everyone.

BigV 01-04-2012 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by footfootfoot (Post 785141)
#4 humble fail.

Speaking strictly for yourself, right?


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