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dmg1969 08-18-2010 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by dmg1969 (Post 677322)
Why the fuck didn't she just answer NEITHER when asked if she wanted butter or cream cheese. I'd say maybe she was having a bad day, but she's probably like that all the time. What a bitch.

Here, fixed that for myself. :D

Shawnee123 08-18-2010 01:02 PM

Heheheee. I had to give you a jab. You're all right. :)

Sundae 08-18-2010 02:54 PM

Argh.
My great ally over the last six (can it be that long?) years is that whenever a male colleague has suggested I am suffering from PMS - and yes they have, albeit in jest, to my face - I've explained ad nauseum why I don't get PMS. I've talked them through the whole process of having a contraceptive implant, what it is, what it does and how it regulates the menstrual cycle. And then I've made them feel it in my arm.

To be fair, the men who've been close enough to me to "joke" about these things have taken it quite well. But I know they've thought twice about making those "jokes" to other women afterwards.

Sadly, in the process I found I can be quite scary to men.
Not now of course. Now I just never see them or talk to them.
But back when I had male colleagues and friends I realised after being an easy adolescent I was destined to a hard future as a crazy cat-woman. Getting the cats was a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Flint 08-18-2010 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Shawnee123 (Post 677325)
:eyebrow:

Hahahahaha...you really didn't just say she must have been on the rag, did you?

Come, visit our century. You may find it welcoming and open.

What has science in "our century" shown? That a wild, roller-coaster fluctuation of hormones has NO EFFECT on a person's behavior? Or, that political correctness has trained us that certain things are "wrong" to say?

Sundae 08-18-2010 03:02 PM

Or that maybe it's not a catch-all response and therefore denigrates the reaction of the person in question.

What if the catch-all for men was, "Oops, couldn't get it up last night then?"
For some men it might be true.
But for many it would be a way of invalidating their anger and frustration in a given situation.

dmg1969 08-18-2010 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 677360)
Argh.
My great ally over the last six (can it be that long?) years is that whenever a male colleague has suggested I am suffering from PMS - and yes they have, albeit in jest, to my face - I've explained ad nauseum why I don't get PMS. I've talked them through the whole process of having a contraceptive implant, what it is, what it does and how it regulates the menstrual cycle. And then I've made them feel it in my arm.

To be fair, the men who've been close enough to me to "joke" about these things have taken it quite well. But I know they've thought twice about making those "jokes" to other women afterwards.

Sadly, in the process I found I can be quite scary to men.
Not now of course. Now I just never see them or talk to them.
But back when I had male colleagues and friends I realised after being an easy adolescent I was destined to a hard future as a crazy cat-woman. Getting the cats was a self-fulfilling prophecy.

That's deep SG. For a while, I feared that I had inadvertently turned this from a thread about Starbucks into one about periods. :eek:

Sundae 08-18-2010 03:35 PM

I used to do it to show men that what they think is an off-the-cuff comment can actually be quite insulting (like calling people half-caste).

Most of them took it really well.
The others called me a fucking dyke, then impregnated me and chained me to the sink.

Okay, one of the above is untrue and completely unfair.

Flint 08-18-2010 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 677363)
Or that maybe it's not a catch-all response and therefore denigrates the reaction of the person in question.

What if the catch-all for men was, "Oops, couldn't get it up last night then?"
For some men it might be true.
But for many it would be a way of invalidating their anger and frustration in a given situation.

REEEOWR! Somebody needs to get their bagel buttered!

lookout123 08-18-2010 03:40 PM

Flint, you are cracking me up today.

Sundae 08-18-2010 03:46 PM

It's true!
Although it's not my hormones, it's the fact I am not sexually satisfied.

£300 would get me back to Amsterdam in October.
And a decent piece of American medicine, none of that foreign rubbish.

I'll ask UT for an additional tips jar.
"Will post for charnge!"

BigV 08-18-2010 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by dmg1969 (Post 677343)
Here, fixed that for myself. :D

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Originally Posted by Shawnee123 (Post 677348)
Heheheee. I had to give you a jab. You're all right. :)

It's how you know she likes you.

/voice of considerable experience/

squirell nutkin 08-18-2010 06:32 PM

What we need is a barrista like this guy to put miss smarty pants in her place.

Shawnee123 08-18-2010 06:39 PM

Oh that's the best! I'd forgotten how good that scene is. I love Casey Affleck at the end, too.

Gravdigr 08-19-2010 03:24 AM

[Will]How ya like them apples?[/Will]


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