I'm sure it's all a big mistake. She's probably making a big quilt of your fabric to give to your kids as a Christmas present and you fucked it up by seeing it. It seems pretty obvious to me from 2500 miles away.

That, or she's lying to you. In which case you just go over to her house when she's not hoem, take the quilt and all the fabric to your house and when she asks you what it's doing at your house just look at her blankly and explain that it's ALWAYS been at your house, what is she talking about?

Or kick her in the cunt.

Well hell, if you're going to go the sneaky route like foot suggests, take a seam ripper with you and take her quilt apart. Then you have no incriminating evidence at all--because of course all of these squares, being yours, must have been in the bag she returned the first time!

Yo Flint do you Need a 280 lb wing man for operation get the shit back ??

Even if and when it is recovered (who knows if they will stash it or give it away before we have a chance to get back over there)... there is the issue of the lying... this is a person I need to be able to trust... They often take care of my kids... if they so boldly lie to me about this... what else will they lie to me or not tell me about... it makes me very uncomfortable.

They claim to be a person of honesty and integrity... not to mention who they are to me just by itself... it is all very unsettling

well, then there must be some kind of logical explanation like the ones proffered above. Perhaps you do yourself and her a disservice with all this wild imagining of plots and schemes and lies. Go ......Friggin.....Talk ....TO......HER. tomorrow. or call her.


women are SOOOOOO nutty.

@Clodfobble. Do you get satisfaction out of always being smarter than me, an average bear?

@zippy. You aren't 280 unless you are, like, 6-5.

Dude, what was your first clue?

He's at least 295.

I should know....I'm 298

on second thought.....he installs scales for a living....he probably has a pretty current picture of his own weight.

Jim I know what I weigh
275-280 on any given day , oh and Im 6' 1-2" ish

Twisted steel and Sex Appeal Babby !!!

depending on whether the weigh in is pre or post poopage, right?

Ish

I must say if I were the other person here I could easily imagine assimilating Pooka's fabric into my stash mentally once she said "you can use it" and forgetting its provenance. After all, it's just bags of fabric scraps, unless you're Pooka for whom they have special significance. Then, years later (i.e. now) being totally confused by Pooka's claiming the stuff ...

Remind me not to mess with you, Marine.

Remind me to mess with you, Marine.

I've been trying... she is avoiding me and not taking or returning my calls. I am stuck at home with 2 little people or I'd drive over there... though at this point I think letting Flint handle her... being that she is on his side is the most appropraite intial course of action.