Start what? lol I've been giving him a hard time all day. In fact, I'm almost finished. ;)

:lol2:

He can, but one is normally "busy" with "something else".



I'm too lazy to search for it but there was a recent post in the What's Upsetting Me Today thread about a young teenage girl who was stoned to death for "adultery" after being raped.
You don't think there is something here to deal with? At least talk about?

Sure, violence comes in all combinations: man-man, man-woman, woman-woman, woman-man, hermaphrodites even. Anyone care to speculate which are more prevalent? And how many men get raped by women?

Every divorced guy.

That's not true. Not all women are vindictive and set out to take everything from their ex's. It wasn't the case for my parents. Nor my Aunt and Uncle, nor when I split with my boys father.

I'm certain there's nothing that unusual about my family.

My ex husband had more money than me in terms of cash when we met, I had more cash than him when we parted.

So I left him with the house (which I had paid the mortgage on every month for the last two years) and with enough money to pay off all our joint credit cards/ small loan, to make some necessary repairs on the house, to close down his failing business and start another one.

Maybe rapacious ex wives are an American breed?