I understand where you're coming from. But you try a month on the single scene (no disrespect to Mrs Merc). You'd soon put some damn guidelines in place!

I think my turn ons and turn offs are simple, but I acknowledge the main reason that I am single is because they are absolute for me. Intelligent, witty and able to stand up to me. And most of those men are already taken, for the same reason I find them attractive. Am hoping to catch them all as they divorce now ;)

How predatory of you SG :rotflol:

Oh did you mean to say one thing butt say something else?
:D

It does fit the context so I can't finger this out.

I think I am just attracted to nutbags.

Like this *cough*armydude*cough*, we went out a couple of times and he was txting me like crazy. We were making plans to go away for the weekend when I came back from Sydney......then.....nothing. NOT A TXT.

I dont txt him for a few days, coz he might of gotten busy with life n shit....then I text him and he blows me off.

No reason, nothing.

Drives me fucking crazy.

Cic - sorry, fixed my post before I saw yours, wasn't anything sneaky.

Ducks - I know many women with the same story. All I can assume is cold feet or friends who express concerns. Two things which are regularly ascribed to women, but count double with men due to communication problems.

Oh and btw - no I didn't get laid on Saturday night, although I could have. Many times over.
The plus point was that I felt like I was 19 again - turning heads, being approached, not being approached but eyed up by men who decided I was out of their league, being able to talk to any man there, secure in the knowledge I was "on top".
The downside - being pawed, the fact it was a meat market, being bothered on the dance floor, having men who wanted sex chatting me up while the (presumably decent) men were intimidated into corners.

Will have a good think before going next month. It would be a shame to give up the feeling I had wearing my corset and heels. I felt 7 foot tall.