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HungLikeJesus 10-26-2007 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 399884)
thank God! I thought I was the only neurotic one on this forum. lol

Are you kidding? I thought that was practically a prerequisite.

lookout123 10-26-2007 11:04 AM

years and years ago when i was in the air force i dreamed that i got one of those middle-of-the-night phone calls to tell me that my dad had died. i had already gotten out of bed, pulled myself together, showered dressed, packed my bag, and was calling a cab to the airport when it finally registered that it had been a dream.

yuck.

Sundae 10-26-2007 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 399788)
Sounds like you had a bit of sass when you were younger SG.

I had so much sass other women used to rub up against me hoping some would leak out.

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Originally Posted by ZenGum (Post 399808)
Sorry, SG, but was that part of the dream sequence? Or did you actually do that? You legend!

Nope, that was what happened in real life - the dream just gave me a sense we had already connected.

binky 10-26-2007 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 399559)
The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life).

I woke up feeling so pissed off with him that I could barely speak. I stayed pissed off with him all day yesterday and just couldn't stop it. It was really weird. Like gremlins had entered my head and made me totally irrational or something.

Anyway, last night there was a bit of a do at his work and he was home a bit late, but not drunk and definitely not really late. We were all still up. The problem was, that because I was still feeling this crankyness, he thought I was pissed off because he was late, but i was too embarrassed to tell him it was nothing to do with that. lol

Poor bugger. I don't know how he puts up with me sometimes.

Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?

Had a dream once where my husband and I went camping, then he disappears for a while, and comes back naked, hand in hand with his ex girlfriend(also naked) I was pissed for a whole day lol

Cicero 10-26-2007 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by BigV (Post 399601)
Yes, and I can't wake up.

LOL!!!
Wait that's not funny. Me either.
;)

Pie 10-26-2007 03:38 PM

Yep, Ali, I've had durned similar dreams too. Took me a good couple of hours /days to get over it. It's almost like my mind decides it is a "real" memory since the feelings in the dream are so strong.
:2cents:

Aliantha 10-26-2007 08:46 PM

Thanks everyone for letting me forgive myself for being a fucking bitch to my husband for really no reason. :) I'm glad to know that other people carry the emotions from their dreams around with them for a while. I was kinda freaked out that I was feeling that way for such a period of time.

richlevy 10-27-2007 08:32 AM

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Originally Posted by BigV (Post 399601)
Yes, and I can't wake up.

Shhh, don't worry, the bad dream all over. Al Gore is President, the Middle East is stable, and we're halfway to solving global warming.;)

DanaC 10-27-2007 12:15 PM

lol Rich!

ElBandito 10-29-2007 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Aliantha (Post 399559)
The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life).

I had this in real life.

My partner and I had arranged a 'date' together. This is a big thing, because with the children we don't get time out. I'd arranged sitters and so-on, and had plans to take her out on the town.
However she decided to go along to after-work drinks. So I rolled up in the car outside her work, after dropping off the kids, not knowing that she'd already left for drinks and waited.
...and waited.
...and waited.
Then I started calling her cellphone to see where she was.
It rang through to voicemail.
And again.
And again.
I got a little frantic; she hadn't come out of her work (that I couldn't get into to find her), and she wasn't answering her phone. Anything could have happened. I was on the verge of calling the police.
And then I saw someone I knew from her work. 90 minutes after she was supposed to have finished work. I ran up and asked them. "Oh, she's at the bar down the road."
I race down there. And 'lo, there she is. Chatting on her phone to a friend. Having not heard all of my calls through to her cellphone, she heard it ring when the friend called through.
So I was fuming and knew that it'd be all bad if I grabbed her then. So I took a look, made sure she was okay, and took off to grab the kids from the babysitters.
Then I came back, picked her drunk ass up and took her home.

I'm still, really, really, bitterly annoyed about it.

lumberjim 10-29-2007 04:39 PM

well, just so you're not pissed off in your sleep at her....

Sundae 10-29-2007 04:45 PM

You were in my dream the other night. You & Jinx had had a third child and called her Margaret Julia. I hated the name (I dislike it in real life) and was torn as to how I responded to your news.

Anything Jinx would like to tell us?

lumberjim 10-29-2007 04:53 PM

yes,
Her sister is pregnant. The names theyve selected are Margaret and Julia.

Sundae 10-29-2007 04:57 PM

I knew I was psychic.
Tomorrow I am going to take out expensive ads in the back of all of the supermarket magazines!

Madman 11-06-2007 01:04 PM

My wife told me that she had a dream before and she was pissed off at me all day long. Maybe that is why I come home sometimes and she is in just a rotten mood - bitching, pissing, moaning, whining, complaining, grouchy, moody, beligerent and just plain "unloving."

I mean... to know me is to love me! pure bullshit here....

She has always told me when she had one of "those" dreams. I can't help but to laugh.


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