OMG, you seem like a normal rational person. Why are you wasting a second of your life on this guy and this situation. Move on. Even if he had some semblance of an excuse, would you want to be with him?? I think not - NEXT!!!

Aliantha - I did actually. The heart attack was real.

I've basically written him off as a love interest, but not as a friend. I'm happy to just be mates and if something develops along the way - cool bananas but he is starting well behind the start line.

Very good, rational decision. I applaud you.

We all are madman...

Gee, this is all too complicated.

Meet with him again, rip his clothes off and fuck him absolutely brainless if he cooperates.

Well, it might be fun, and after that just see what happens.

Yeah, I know. This is a guy's solution to many things.

You would think he would of taken that when it was offered last weekend huh Joel??

I'm a tad shitty I havent been able to use this as a learning experience, I hate having lose ends.

Well if you are in the neighborhood I could volunteer to . . . Just kidding! Perhaps the thing to learn from this is that there are absolutely, certifiable people in the world and things they say and do have no rationale whatsoever. There are things that just make no sense no matter how hard you try to sort them out. just move on - onward and upward.

Although LJ may be right, it just occurred to me, maybe when he hooked up with you he was (or thought he was) cheating on someone else and had an attack of conscience. :idea:

I hadnt thought of that Bruce.

I guess there are plenty of *maybes* (although LJ's strokes my ego just nicely), when I was maybeing I was really just making excuses to myself....it appears the man just didnt like me :)

Stop deluding yourself. It's obvious this man is mentally ill. Recommend wolf to him and you'll be able to put this whole event to rest.