I'm doing it to please myself, wolf. I do most things to please either myself or someone I care about.

Limey, i was talking about when Elspode said My response, that I want to do what I want, includes looking androgynous


Besides, look at it this way: it'll tell people at a glance what would otherwise take a while of knowing me to figure out.

I prefer the mystery of looking quite ordinary, but being very surprising about who I am.

I don't give much of a damn about what other people think. My mother does not understand this.

If I cared what others think, really, wouldnt I just try to conform? I just wanna have fun, really.

Between this thread and that picture of Kurt, you've got me worried. :eyebrow:

...what?

I'm with you Wolf, except that my mother does understand ...

My mother's responsibility right now is to concentrate on healing. I understand the need for her to focus on other things, but surely, "There's a strand of hair on your face" and "what's that white splotch on your pants, keep that covered" should not be her primary concerns.

An attempt to maintain the status quo when facing adversity, Wolf? :confused:

Didn't mean to seem to be taking a pop at your mother - I know she is unwell and wish her a speedy recovery.

I didn't take your comment as a pop at my mom. I just needed to vent, this seemed a good place to do it.

Vent away, wolf. Vent away.

Abso-bally-lutely.

Cover the Adam's apple with a De Beers diamond-studded choker .

ahem..

If all else fails, you could just decide who the fuck you wanted to be and be that person.

What's wrong with who you are now? Just asking.

Not to piss on your parade, and I hate to have to tell you this, but a haircut is not irreversible. Hole in the ear, seems to last a long time, judging by my middle aged friends.

And what ever you do, don't forget the patchouli.