The cunt-in-you-ing saga of dwellars who have a V in their usernames.

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LJ knows the story. I told him privately way back when I stopped posting here. I am not getting into it again, I came to the conclusion that it is a total waste of my time. I am moving forward, not looking backward.

Even if I was bedridden or something, a crossword puzzle would be better than hashing it out with people who are much better at debating than I am. I've come to know myself a lot better over the last few years. I realize that all my life I've been projecting my desire to get along with people onto others.

When I communicate with someone, it's with the intention of coming to a mutually satisfying agreement, an understanding, a respectful agreement to disagree, or some other form of mature outcome that benefits both parties as much as possible. I always naively assumed that all people came into misunderstandings or debates with the same hopes. But now I realize that some people just actually enjoy a good debate and their only end goal is to win. The only intelligent thing for me to do with those types is Do Not Engage.

I wish I had figured this out a long time ago, but better late than never.

So sorry, you guys should put away the popcorn, nothing's going down here, lol.

I'm also not going into hiding. I was here first and I am no longer involved in all the political idiocy that kept me from sharing anything online in fear it would be twisted and spread all over to ruin my reputation. The people I choose to include in my life these days don't care about any of that crap. If I told them all the stories I shared on here over the years they'd laugh their asses off and they'd still love me :)

StaceyV I just wanted you to know I was here, maybe you have been reading all along >shrug< I have no bone to pick with you, I don't hold grudges, I don't have to be in your comments you don't have to be in mine. Enjoy your life welcome back! :)

Excellent. Much less entertaining than a chick fight, but still. Way to be, ladies.

I, for one, welcome back our soul spitting overlord.

I really missed you, StacyV. Glad you learned the secret of the internet and life. Just scroll past the stuff you don't need.

Awww you guys give me warm fuzzies, thank you!

I can't believe it's been over ten years since I joined. The Cellar is like an old security blanket I found in a box in the attic :blush: Glad I came back.