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monster 01-26-2020 06:43 AM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 1045172)
1000 people laid off

Correction 2500 nationwide

limey 01-26-2020 07:57 AM

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monster 01-26-2020 09:22 AM

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Originally Posted by BigV (Post 1044326)

He said, "No animosity with this, I like you. We're going forward with the team without you."

He said I'm available in the future... For what I asked, for more talk, y'know. He asked if there was anything I wanted to say.

It bugs me that no reason was given.

I must be doing something wrong but *fuck* if I know what it is. I wish I did, I'd stop doing it.

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Originally Posted by BigV (Post 1045471)

No, I still don't know any more about the circumstances that led to his decision than I have already shared. I definitely haven't contacted him, though I've had conversations with him in my head.


I could be totally off base here, but I feel he was trying to let you know that he wanted to tell you the reason but couldn't in that time and place. It might be worth your while trying to set your anger aside and call him to see if he can shed any light on it.

If nothing else, a bit of closure, but perhaps also a bit of confidence going forward in your new job search, because at the moment, the not knowing and feeling there must be something you do wrong is impinging your ability to "be the best you" -you have a niggling self-doubt there that you're going to do the same thing again. Even though the chances are there's no such thing and you have just had some shit luck.

I hope that made some sense :/

xoxoxoBruce 01-26-2020 09:59 AM

It did to me, hopefully it will to him.

sexobon 01-26-2020 11:04 AM

When a person is involuntarily terminated from their job, they typically ask at least two questions if the answers haven't already been provided by the employer:

Why am I being terminated?

In some states this affects eligibility for unemployment compensation; because, you can't get it if the employer claims you were fired for misconduct. Termination for other reasons is essential to know when a prospective employer asks why you left your last job; so, they don't assume the worst.

What reason, if any, for my departure are you going to give prospective new employers when they contact you to verify my work history and departure standing?

Regardless of company policy, which may be to only verify your employment period, additional information about you may be passed on through off-the-record phone calls from prospective employers to your previous employer.

Not thinking to ask these questions at the time of termination is understandable since that can be a shocking experience causing distraction.

Not pursuing the answers after regaining focus is typically due to the person thinking they already know the likely answer and not wanting confirmation of it (they're in denial).

The thing is, there's always a chance that they're wrong and there's too much at stake to not find out for sure.

monster 01-27-2020 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 1045500)
Correction 2500 nationwide

aaaand they filed for bankruptcy

https://www.wsj.com/articles/kroger-...cy-11580136545

Griff 01-28-2020 06:40 AM

Does this leave an opportunity for a competent grocery? A co-op or another small market?

monster 01-28-2020 10:18 AM

Hard to say. Local market may be saturated.

Griff 01-29-2020 06:40 AM

Gotcha. Be serious about networking, you have a shit ton of contacts through youth sports use them. This last time, I finally just asked people for help finding a new gig and the most unexpected person came through.

I observed two evaluations for Early Intervention services yesterday. I think I've made a good move. It turns out I just love the little dudes and they usually love me.

monster 01-29-2020 09:30 PM

Schmoozing at an "informational interview' tomorrow. Got my outfit together. I HATE THIS

xoxoxoBruce 01-30-2020 12:41 AM

Good news Griff, sounds like a good move.

Monster, because you hate it you'll work at it and do well.

Griff 01-30-2020 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 1045726)
Schmoozing at an "informational interview' tomorrow. Got my outfit together. I HATE THIS

Most people do. Hammer through this part by focusing on optimism.

Clodfobble 01-30-2020 01:21 PM

Fingers crossed for both of you, monster and V.

monster 01-30-2020 07:00 PM

I think it went really well... I was horribly apprehensive. She suggested the opening I was already applying for -as was hoped but I thought too optimistic because it seems a bit of a reach to me- and told me about another opening coming up, a few more places to check out, offered an introduction to someone I should talk to next and suggested the best ways to get my stats skills up to date -checked every single box and then some :D

xoxoxoBruce 01-30-2020 11:52 PM

Since these two fine citizens are available, they should both run for congress.


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