Yeah, not exactly a chick-magnet babe-lair, is it?

Au contraire, what you need is a harem. :haha:

Hey, dis! I'll be thinking of you.
(When you're finished at your place, do you want to come over and clean up mine (nothing improper here, just cleaning on offer!).
Be good to yourself!

Be well Dis. Time will take you far from this.

I think the silence is deafening actually. She is saying an awful lot by not saying anything. If she really cared would she leave you hanging in some sort of sick limbo like this for all this time? Would she let you dangle there knowing how you feel?
I think she is clearly saying that she doesn't care enough to cut you loose and allow you to heal and move on.
Thats what I hear, but as my tag line says...
"Hey, my views aren't popular, they're just mine."

I hope I'm wrong, but I don't think you're the only one she's stringing along. Been there. Been done like that. Learned fairly quickly. A one lesson course, so to speak. Graduated at the head of my class.

Lucky you. She must have found some other guy willing to let her drag him face down through the mud.

For some girls, that's their idea of a relationship.

beestie, capnhowdy: I guess that's what's changing in me. Not so much a "Gosh, I hope she hasn't found some other guy", but a "I hope I learn from this, whatever it was."

We all hope so too. Life is too short to go thru that shit twice.

She sounds broken. Don't waste anymore time or energy thinking about what went wrong. Put your energy into fixin yourself and get back out there.
Trust me I am a doctor.

So I was sitting at a coffeehouse this morning reading a book, looked up and saw an attractive lady in a sundress walk by. So I smiled at her and thought of this place.

A brief update:

I bought a bicycle a couple weeks ago and have been riding like a fiend. 30 miles this weekend alone. I figure I've spent enough of my life sitting on the couch, plus it gives me time to think and an outlet for all the emotional crap that's been stirring. Besides, what's the worst that can happen, I get in shape?

I've not heard from the ex, nor have I tried talking to her. I'm moving on with my life.

Thanks to all of you for the words.

-dis

Good move Dis.

Good for you, dis. You'll do just fine.


Thanks for the update.

Yep. You got it now. Good luck. Keep us posted.

post a picture of yourself