In memory of John Hughes?

(Pretty in Pink)

I used to work for a chinese couple. The husbands name was Kim and the wife's name was Oy. It was a supermarket and I was a checkout chick. It sounded pretty funny when I called out, "Oy, can I have a price check please".

Doesn't beat one of the people who applied at my office a while back - Fanny Fun Lin.

Welcome to The Cellar. :mad:

lol yeah, well, I joined up in 2003, and have been in and out since then, so I "know" most the posters here. Usually we weed out the "bad" people and the people who stick around (and are accepted as one of the group) are genuinely good people with a different viewpoint.

I don't know. It makes me sad. There was a spontaneity here for me that's gone now. I used to feel free to just post whatever I was thinking, no matter how confused or weird or wrong I may be. I would experience the group sending messages of understanding, or direction, or sympathy, or even a good ass kicking if I came off too harsh, or totally made an ass of myself. Now I'm hesitant to post at all, and if I do, I'm watching every word for tone and shit. It's not fun here anymore.

And I know that one situation shouldn't sour me on the whole deal, but I just don't feel like I have any backup on this. If I wanted to be alone, I wouldn't come here in the first place.

OC, Here are my responses
compassionate : Sorry you feel that way. It was in my reading the exchange, a simple misunderstanding.
Direction: Try again.
Smpathy: Sorry you two went at it. Neither of you should have to deal with that.
Ass Kickin: Suck it up ya Nancy.

I actually think both of you got bent over nothing, but my opinion is worth as much as you paid to read it - zippo!

Intellectually, I'm right there with you.

Emotionally, not quite ready yet.

I fully understand. I share many of your sentiments.

OC, don't be put off. There are plenty of people around here who're interested in what you've got to say. Maybe the other poster was just having a bad day or something. These things happen sometimes.

Remember, just because you trip once doesn't mean you should stop walking. ;)

*hug* Merc and Ali

I wrote this big old long thing, a thought process, really, but what it comes down to is:

If I can fix the links, I will. If not, I'll put them on my domain and link that in a few minutes.

ETA: Fuck it. Not worth all the damn drama anyways.

Sorry for going mental.

Just do what is good for you, OC. We love you anyway.

OC - as far as I'm aware, only one poster has ever brought personal issues into the NSFW thread, and even those weren't actually directed at a person.

This thread is pretty musch sacrosanct.
Even me, the queen of non-confrontation, will call people out it they start raising issues here.

Nah, I actually thought that Photobucket had taken them down. It's happened before, although now that I think about it, there was some kind of 'service violation' message.

Sorry to hear that you're getting static in another thread. We've all had those days. I always give people a couple of free passes before I write them off. I have never used the ignore feature in this incarnation of the Cellar, but I have been tempted.

Anyway, I hope the rest of your Cellar experience this week is more pleasant.

Have a flower. :flower:

Soooo, Im hoping its a tad windy tonite....and the lips are primed.
(Girls are out too, but I dont have time to resize)

Im off, have fun guys :)

WTF!!: :sniff: