Chat isn't the cellar, it's chat. It's relaxing, having a beer, and shooting the shit with people you know on the cellar. That some people are too socially retarded to manage this without fucking it all up for themselves or the rest of us speaks to them, not to chat itself. And trolls will be trolls, but of course they're not going to admit to it.:rolleyes:

I want to know what rules she broke, to be repeatedly booted from chat.

Ahh, screw it........It's just lame and I know it.

Except it excludes those of us in different timezones.
Which is not what the Cellar is about.

And yes, I am bitter.

That's fucked up.

The logs show that shawnee was never kicked. It's her bad connection failing her.

I suspected as much.....That's happened with her connection on several occasions.

So why do I have a pm that could be taken differently without actually saying? Or am I "crazy" too? BS. Misdirection......

Merc the text you've posted, and all our memories, show an apology never happened.

Perhaps you were kicked just as you had composed one and had your finger over the Enter key.

We can take your word on that but we know there was no apology posted, only a deep defense of your own situation which is actually the opposite of an apology. An apology therefore is still pending, it never occurred.

You can remove this whole mess, then, by writing a heartfelt actual apology, with feeling, like you mean it. If you don't mean it, pretend that you do.

And btw don't want to hurt broken people? FWIW, if you haven't worked it out yet from life, we are pretty much all broken, and that definitely includes you and me. Set out to hurt anybody at all, we fuck up. Best approach is not to set out to hurt.

http://cellar.org/showpost.php?p=543072&postcount=51

I had to come back in as something else cause I kept getting kicked out. I think I did it there as I was trying to find out what line I crossed.

I did not mean to set out to hurt. And including my post above, I do apologize, like I said I don't think it would be accepted.

Well said, UT.

OK, I apologize to merc for the acccusation. Since my connection was fine when lj and the rest of the crowd was there you can understand the confusion.

What pm? From me? My records show no pm from me to you for a couple weeks.


Boy, this has been fun. Where might I sign up for more?

No Shawnee........Not you...........

Read the post again.

Cicero being as comprehensible as usual...

Okay, an apology doesn't include "it won't be accepted", and generally includes more of a mea culpa sort of feel to be real, but cool.

Yah well. I like to preserve anonymity while getting my message across to the person it is intended for.

It really wasn't for you.

Didn't seem to work for the person it was intended for either.
Or at least it confused two of us.

Oh yah. According to my pm's.......Yah it did work. Sorry to confuse, as there seems to be enough of it going on.

just hold it right there, misseh.

you can stay up if you want to. it's not OUR fault you live 5 hours in the future. We see dana a good bit....and limey just last night. maybe you could chat up the other brits and daytime east coasters.

It's up to you to make it a good chat when you want it....it's there 24 hours. your above bitterness implies that you are being excluded intentionally, when quite the opposite is true. take a nap, stay up late. get piss drunk with us tonight!

May i respectfully sugggest Sundae takes a nap, stays up late and disses punks with you instead? ;)

Can I make a suggestion, that maybe coded messages intended for single recipients might be more suited to private messages?

I like Chat. I don't care about the timezone thing. Every now and again I manage to make it in there for one o fthe big chat sessions and that feels special because it's unusual. Feels like I'm playing with one foot in the States.

FTR, I can't stay up late (oh I was so tempted to put that in "quotes")
because of this rattly keyboard. It keeps Mum awake.
Because O M G - you do NOT want to kep Mum awake.
Or at least, I don't want to.

I don't really hate y'all for chatting without me.
But I will acknowledge the time difference when it comes up as part of discussion.

PS - it's not my damned CHOICE that you live 5 hours ahead o' me. Yo get'cha?
Yeah, I bitter cos I can't change it...
PPS - I've been watching too much America's Next Top Model.

We've been meaning to talk to you about that. Do you want us to send this foot back every time or is it supposed to stay here?

Just leave it propped up by the door I'll collect it next time I'm about.

Yes. But I like both better. I like to use as many mediums as I have to get my point across. And no I am not the only person on the cellar to insert an inside joke, or message for another dwellar in their post.....This occurs with any group of people. You don't have to get everything I say. It's so a part of my charming personality. :p

see, dana... I told you she'd say that. ;)

I suppose if SG wanted to be over sensitive or had a grudge against you, she might take offence at a suggestion she gets drunk when she's quite obviously been telling us all how she's off the booze.

Lucky she's not or you might be being crucified too.

I think you should apologize.

.

you're absolutely right. so right in fact, that i am breaking my policy of not replying to your trolling ass. with the caveat, that i did not suggest that she take lethal dose of booze.

sorry cherry. i didn't realize that you were off the booze. i haven't been paying very close attention to things as a whole, i guess. as we are not enemies, I'm sure that you know that my intent was not to offend, but to cajole.

also,
fuck you trish.

Ha! What BS. Way to blow it into your fantasy of what you want to believe about the intention.:headshake

can we try that in english?

successful trolls are successful

Enough! Both of you pack it in! I oughta knock yer bloody heads together. We all have more than enough data to decide what we all think of the both of you. Brianna is still alive, so is SG, this is absolutely pointless. Next one to comment further on this topic is a big fat poopy-head with ginger pubes and a belly button that smells like tw posted in it.

Well, at the risk of being a big fat poopy-head with ginger pubes and a belly button that smells like tw posted in it (lol) I'm going to reply anyway.

One persons troll is another persons friend. I believe the word troll is being bandied around this place far too frequently lately and some people are forgetting the contributions some people have made to this board during the time they've been here.

For the record, if lumberjim thinks I'm a troll, it's really a case of sticks and stones to me and I'll be just as happy if he goes back to ignoring me. My point was simply that although we might choose to take offense at some people's comments, they are not always meant with any kind of ill will. Of course I knew that he wouldn't encourage to SG to drink when she's clearly on the wagon. Although we may have our differences (although it still amazes me that he's decided to think the worst of me for whatever reason) I know he doesn't intentionally set out to be an arsehole.

So, also for the record, I think it'd be much more productive for this forum if people would just stop and think for a second before they decide to go ahead and think the worst of people and the comments they might make. Pretty soon if you get into the habit of it, with written communication, you can read the worst into almost any comment, and it's very rare than anyone is all bad.

Anyway, that it for this big fat poopy-head. :)

Yes, everyones perspective may vary a bit, and how you view a situation is definitely colored by many factors, and so as a result, I can see how some may totally miss how nasty merc can really be, but that certainly does not excuse his nastyness.

Well, I wasn't specifically talking about Merc, but I get your point Pico.

I think it comes down to the fact that some people have a fundamentally different way of seeing and talking about things. It doesn't make them mean or nasty. It just makes their view different. If all I knew of Merc was what he posts on the forum I'd probably think the same thing as some of you do, but that's not all that he is.

Prior to this revelation for me, I was much harsher in my outlook of others that just seemed to annoy me all the time no matter what they said. Since then I've tried to be more understanding of other people's perspective and in the main it's worked except for one situation which apparently some people still feel the need to punish me for.

It's time to move on. Build bridges etc. What benefit can there be to all this conflict?

tonight in chat - NOTHING about this crap!
Drama Free - you have my guarantee (as long as I'm there anyway)

not to put too fine a point on things ali: after I said thank you for not wishing cancer on me (very kind of you considering your good friend wished me dead - and that is certainly ILL WILL) you replied with "you annoy the crap out of me" -- so , excuse me while I find your shifting attitudes confusing to say the least.

But no worries. I'm going back to ignoring you. It's for my sanity, not yours.

Well you do annoy me sometimes. I don't mean to confuse you, and it doesn't mean I hate you or want to not see you around this place or anything.

That's what I mean about perspective. I could say that Merc annoys the crap outta me sometimes and he'd probably laugh at me for saying so. I was trying to be lighthearted about our 'differences', but it didn't come across that way to you and I'm sorry about that. You and I just don't seem to understand each other very well. It doesn't mean we have to be enemies. Maybe it means we should just try harder. I don't really know the answer, and a few years of bitching at each other might take some effort to forget or move past. Might be worth the effort though. I doubt that either of us really has a true opinion of the other at this point.

Anyway, there's not much more I can say about it except that I'm tired of avoiding some people in order to keep the peace. From what I can tell, although there's been no declaration of any intent, monster and I seem to have moved on from the spat we had going there for a while. I don't see what's so different about you or anyone else.

eta: If I could take the comment back that offended you I would do so. It wasn't my intention to upset you or appear insincere.

That's quite a shit-stirring stick you have there.

And you seem well practiced in its use.

Oh no. No please don't. Just let this die and let's not start any new fights.

Technically, I wasn't starting a new fight.

Then of what use are you? Start a TROLL POLL thread, complete with poll. Take names from here to include as multiple choices and don't forget to include yourself. Entertain us with something new.

Damn, I missed how insulting to me LJ was being, suggesting I got drunk.
Jim, can you run that by me again so I can be properly offended?

;)

::wonders how many people's ignore lists she's on::



;) :D ;)

You have to pass the 'crazy test' first, Lab! ;) doncha know that??

Made me chuckle out loud. :biglaugha

*phew*

I perform the occasional wedding.

Sea Captain or senior military officer?

nah - internet preacher... :haha:

Naw. Plain old preacher.

But thanks for making shit up!

09:46:56 ‹Schaw› answered 12/03/2009 09:47:01 ‹Schaw› i've killed a hobo

12/03/2009 09:47:17 ‹lumberjim› all polls should have that option

12/03/2009 09:47:25 ‹vana› http://cellar.org/cellarchat/data/pu...leys/dizzy.gif

12/03/2009 09:47:32 ‹Schaw› damn hobos anyway

12/03/2009 09:47:52 ‹vana› http://cellar.org/cellarchat/data/pu...mileys/eek.gif

12/03/2009 09:47:53 ‹Schaw› this was an especially surly hobo

12/03/2009 09:48:02 ‹Schaw› all beggy and shit
12/03/2009 09:48:02 ‹lumberjim› lol

12/03/2009 09:48:08 ‹jinx› its what theyre there for..

12/03/2009 09:48:19 ‹lumberjim› fodder for hobo hunters

12/03/2009 09:48:24 ‹Schaw› yep, killin'

12/03/2009 09:48:35 ‹jinx› only good hobo...
12/03/2009 09:48:37 ‹lumberjim› you have to work your way up to prostitutes somehow

12/03/2009 09:48:43 ‹Schaw› it's a hobby, i almost went pro until I tore my meniscus

12/03/2009 09:48:58 ‹jinx› bum bashing

12/03/2009 09:49:11 ‹lumberjim› the pro hoboers league is tough to get into

12/03/2009 09:49:13 ‹jinx› next olympics

lol

That made me giggle. I just watched the first two episodes of Dexter last night. Oh I am liking that show. I am liking it very much.

@ Shaw. You. You've gone wrong, mate.

heehee.

I was all sober and everything! ;)

09:28:14 ‹Razz› lol 17/03/2009 09:28:33 ‹Razz› so I'm a sissy

17/03/2009 09:28:37 ‹Razz› take it or leave it peoples http://cellar.org/cellarchat/data/pu...leys/laugh.gif

17/03/2009 09:29:14 ‹Zippyt› Ill take it

17/03/2009 09:29:43 ‹jinx› a bra is just like a bathing suit...

17/03/2009 09:30:13 ‹Zippyt› untill you swim in it

17/03/2009 09:31:00 ‹Razz› well that's what I figured

17/03/2009 09:31:06 ‹Razz› safe enough

17/03/2009 09:31:13 ‹Razz› and I really do freakin love that bra

17/03/2009 09:31:41 ‹jinx› its adorable

17/03/2009 09:32:07 ‹Razz› tytyty

17/03/2009 09:32:14 ‹jinx› my polka dot ones arent that comfortable, and theyre hard to put on/take off

17/03/2009 09:32:29 ‹Razz› I had a striped one that I ADORED

17/03/2009 09:32:36 ‹Razz› it wasn't even underwire and I loved it

17/03/2009 09:32:40 ‹Razz› but I outgrew it

17/03/2009 09:33:28 ‹Zippyt› Razz Bubblen out the Top !!

17/03/2009 09:33:40 ‹jinx› lol

17/03/2009 09:34:04 ‹Razz› lol

17/03/2009 09:34:07 ‹Razz› not so much

17/03/2009 09:34:23 ‹Razz› more of razz getting too heavy and it adding up everywhere

17/03/2009 09:35:28 ‹jinx› I wear these most often

17/03/2009 09:35:30 ‹jinx› Wakefield has issued a detailed refutation of Deer’s allegations

17/03/2009 09:35:34 ‹jinx› oops

17/03/2009 09:35:48 ‹jinx› these - httphttp://cellar.org/cellarchat/data/pu...s/confused.gif/cellar.org/showpost.php...ount=35

17/03/2009 09:36:13 ‹jinx› $9.99 at target - I have like 20 of them...

17/03/2009 09:37:09 ‹Razz› hehe

17/03/2009 09:37:17 ‹Razz› that's where I got my polka dotted one

17/03/2009 09:37:19 ‹Razz› http://cellar.org/cellarchat/data/pu...leys/laugh.gif

17/03/2009 09:38:06 ‹Razz› also...ONLY in cellar chat, do you accidentally paste political information, instead of accidentally pasting in a photo of you topless making a funny face

17/03/2009 09:38:49 ‹jinx› lol

17/03/2009 09:39:04 ‹jinx› probably true...

17/03/2009 09:40:24 ‹Zippyt› Aint it Grand

17/03/2009 09:40:33 * mtp joins My room
17/03/2009 09:40:33 * jim joins My room

17/03/2009 09:40:44 ‹mtp› hey all!
17/03/2009 09:40:46 ‹Zippyt› it would be funnyer if it was the other way around

17/03/2009 09:40:54 ‹jinx› moar!

17/03/2009 09:40:55 * jim zips up

WTF-ery
 

Somethings need explanations...

LOLWUT

So, I go into the chat room today and guess what happens.

Everyone's best mate lumberjim kicks me from the room. His reason being "because I hate you".

No shit sherlock.

I forgot you were the chat police.

Arsehole.

i dedicate that kicking to brianna



:: takes a bow::

i love you brianna. you're mah frenn

LOL....grow up Jimbo.