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limey 07-31-2008 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 472815)
Y'know, I really don't understand what is so difficult to accept about a community which began as a Philedelphia affair and then grew into a wider community with members from far flung places, but the largest portion of which are still in America, being an American board. That doesn't mean it is exclusively an American board. It merely means that the dominant culture is that of America. This is not a bad thing. I do not believe members like myself, who post here from other countries, feel like they are any less a part of the community than the American members are.

London is a cosmopolitan city and there are people of every culture and background, cheek to jowl and living as citizens. It is still, fundamentally, an English city. An English city which has become more than that, a world city.

This is an American board, but it is an American board which has become more than that, a world board. It is both.

What she said.
As far as I can tell in this thread none of us non-US citizens have objected to the American flavour of this board, or said we feel excluded. It is simply a description, in the same way that another board I frequent is definitely a British board, because the majority of the content is contributed by a particular nationality/culture.

lookout123 07-31-2008 04:13 PM

I'm deeply offended that you would see this as an american board. i call you a manc tart to make you feel at home afterall.

Undertoad 07-31-2008 04:16 PM

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AG online users right now:

United States of America (4)
Canada (4)
Awwk, that's too Canadian. Those northerners are a problem.

HungLikeJesus 07-31-2008 04:18 PM

What kind of beer is that in the tip mug? That should answer the question.

DanaC 07-31-2008 04:33 PM

Well it sure as hell doesn't look cloudy and warm..

Aliantha 07-31-2008 04:36 PM

I think limey put it best. The culture is American on this board regardless of how welcoming some members are.

It doesn't matter though. I don't know why some Americans are so upset at the assertion. Why does it matter?

Aliantha 07-31-2008 04:37 PM

It looks like a fourex, but that'd make it NZ nowdays.

Undertoad 07-31-2008 04:47 PM

It was actually a Sam Adams variety that I found I didn't like.

marjoj77 07-31-2008 05:07 PM

I agree with SundaeGirl, DanaC and Limey. This board is an American board from my point of view but it's not a bad thing at all. :) I haven't seen or read anything that would have bothered me because it is "too American" or anything like that.

Even though there are users from many other countries too, I don't think there would be nearly as much discussion of some local events of those countries compared to the things happening in the US. Maybe Australiand and Brits and some others could do that, but not so many other nationalities.

For example, I have no idea how many writers/lurkers from Finland keep coming here, but probably the discussion wouldn't be overwhelmingly active if I started a thread about some things happening here. :) But I visit some Finnish forums where I can discuss about those things, or keep lurking there too and just read the discussion of the more active writers...

Undertoad 07-31-2008 07:07 PM

From my point of view, it's nothing less than thrilling that the Cellar becomes more and more international. In its first 8 years of operation, it was a local phone call to reach, and so we were guaranteed Philly people and nothing but Philly people. People would leave the Cellar because they moved away!

TheMercenary 07-31-2008 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by marjoj77 (Post 472857)
I agree with SundaeGirl, DanaC and Limey. This board is an American board from my point of view but it's not a bad thing at all. :) I haven't seen or read anything that would have bothered me because it is "too American" or anything like that.

Even though there are users from many other countries too, I don't think there would be nearly as much discussion of some local events of those countries compared to the things happening in the US. Maybe Australiand and Brits and some others could do that, but not so many other nationalities.

For example, I have no idea how many writers/lurkers from Finland keep coming here, but probably the discussion wouldn't be overwhelmingly active if I started a thread about some things happening here. :) But I visit some Finnish forums where I can discuss about those things, or keep lurking there too and just read the discussion of the more active writers...

Well tell us something from a Finish point of view that you would consider to be a prevailing view among your country men... I mean besides we all suck or how bad the US is, something interesting.

classicman 07-31-2008 07:55 PM

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Originally Posted by marjoj77 (Post 472857)
I don't think there would be nearly as much discussion of some local events of those countries compared to the things happening in the US.

Give it a shot - I'd love to know whats going on there and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

lookout123 07-31-2008 08:19 PM

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I don't think there would be nearly as much discussion of some local events of those countries compared to the things happening in the US.
but but but, that's cuz our stuff is actually important. being american and all.

monster 07-31-2008 10:03 PM

I was at a PTO meeting a few months ago, and -as usual- they were moaning that we are "too white". We're a magnet school, so our demographics differ from the neighborhood the school is in. Which is a pretty white area. As usual we debate why/how ..........the more culturally diverse sections of the catchment area are over an hour's schoolbus ride away.....
and at the last moment of the debate, a black mom and former chair of the PTO (who resigned mid-term) pipes up (paraphrased): You ain't ever gonna get equality in the school until you really address the equity issues. Y'all say you want more "minorities", but you keep running it the white way. You're all so polite with whose turn it is to speak and not getting mad with each other. That's not our way. We get mad and in your face and you won't let us do that. That's not how we do it and why we feel alienated.

I got her point. I didn't realise before that moment that there were different ways of doing these things. She wasn't bitter, she didn't expect any change and ahe still is a part of it and apparently enjoys it, but it has hit a nerve for me....
but pretty much the rest of the PTO thought she was hallucinating because they know they have no skin color issues. And they don't. They just don't have any friends who have a different skin color to set them straight on what it is and how it feels to be black. or brown. or coffee. or caramel.... or green........

but the point being, because I was in the majority and was very used to the way thins run, it never occurred to me that anyone could perceive the setup as being biased. But it was. That understood, the mom didn't want us to change it, she just wanted us to realize that it was like a foreign language sometimes.

And I think that's all we non-Americans want. We don't want to change the board, we' don't even need a nod to the fact that you know we're not on the same page. We love how it is, but it is an American board and you guys just can't see that because you are American.

xoxoxoBruce 07-31-2008 10:28 PM

Sure, turn the meeting into a Gansta Ho slapdown, to make them feel more welcome. :eyebrow:

Flint 07-31-2008 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 472909)
...it is an American board and you guys just can't see that because you are American.

That's not accurate, for me, at all. I recognize that there are different types of people from different places, but I don't obsess on it, or make threads about it. For me, the internet is all about bringing people together, and there aren't any restrictions on that based on geographical boundaries or national affiliations.

This is from SG's original post:
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Personally I never realised there was such a difference between Brits & Americans til I came here.
Exactly. The internet has brought us together, allowing us to learn about each other, and now, we can focus on our common humanity.

This is because the internet has no national boundaries. The internet is everywhere. To try to give it a geographical attribute is inherently illogical to me, and I just can't get past that.

There are no foreigners on the internet, only human beings. This is the new world order you've been hearing about. One world, one love. All that.

P.S. I don't notice anything different about this place that sets it apart from more "international" boards I have posted on. So that right there tells me that we are all just human beings with a lot of things in common no matter where we're from. To try to place us in categorized boxes seems superficial to me. That's not what the internet is for. It's for coming together, not huddling in homogenous lumps.

marjoj77 08-01-2008 01:09 AM

I think my point was missed by myself too last night. :) It's easier for Americans (and Australians and Brits) to talk about interesting events in their country, because the language is the same. If I linked to some Finnish newspaper and asked what do you think about it, I'd have to translate the article first, and unfortunately I'm way too lazy for that. :)

It doesn't bother me at all, and as I tried to tell, I have no problems about the Cellar being an American place (from my point of view).
I might start some threads later, but now I have about 7 minutes to turn off this terrible time-consumer (my computer, not the Cellar ;) ) and get to work...

DanaC 08-01-2008 03:19 AM

Flint, unless you are frequenting international boards where English is not the main language, you are statistically likely to be on one where Americans are the mainstay of the board.

Sundae 08-01-2008 04:19 AM

The reason I started the thread was because it really bugged me that something so obvious to me was being vehemently denied. It was like going through the looking glass. I had to reassure myself that in fact I wasn't crazy. I'm not obsessed by it, by any means. If I was I would start linking to this thread in other posts. Ahem.

Flint, just admit that you're wrong and we can all go back to being part of one glorious whole :grouphug: (Rimmer)

NoBoxes 08-01-2008 04:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 472914)
... To try to place us in categorized boxes seems superficial to me. ...

Somehow, I can identify with that.
NoBoxes
But then I'm frequenting international boards where English is not the main language.

monster 08-01-2008 09:18 AM

sorry. i knew i shouldn't have joined in.

Sundae 08-01-2008 09:21 AM

But no!
You are the most qualified. Don't start being stingy with your expertise now!

Flint 08-01-2008 09:26 AM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 472947)
Flint, unless you are frequenting international boards where English is not the main language, you are statistically likely to be on one where Americans are the mainstay of the board.

My introduction to internet communities was a place filled with (English-speaking) Aussies, Cannucks, Kiwis, Brits, and fluent English speakers from all corners of the globe. English speakers are everywhere, and I'll remind you that it isn't an "American" language.

The numbers will be skewed towards Americans because we have a larger population, that's all.

To say that a place is an "American" board sounds like a description of its character, not a statistical analysis.

I don't think we can continue to indulge national characteristics as an important element of human interaction. That part of history is dying away, this is the future. We're all here together.

There is one human race. This is a HUMAN board.

Flint 08-01-2008 09:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 472952)
The reason I started the thread was because it really bugged me that something so obvious to me was being vehemently denied.
...

I'm not "denying" it, I'm questioning its significance. Why should we pick apart the things that separate us, and put the focus on that? We're all human, and we all have more in common than the trivial, divisive cultural idiosyncraices we cling to.

Sundae 08-01-2008 09:41 AM

It is American in character due to the statistic that the majority of posters are American.

Whether you choose to recognise it or not, there are differences between people of different countries. Ask Slang if living in the Phillipines is the same as living in America. Ask Monster and Perry Winkle if Britain and the USA are the same. Ask me if I saw any daily differences when I lived in France as a 15 year old (aside from the language obviously) It's not indulgent, it's the way things are. Denying that differences exist doesn't change anything.

Anyway, I got what I wanted from the thread. I know that other people see what I do, and that the people who don't can't or won't understand the point I was making.

Hurray! Once again I win the game! (Dr Carlton)

Flint 08-01-2008 09:51 AM

"Whether you choose to recognise it or not..." Where are you getting that I'm "denying" or "choosing not to recognize" anything? Please read my posts.

Other people "see what you do" becasue you don't have a unique insight. You're not contributing anything that isn't obvious.

People are from different places. Agreed. Obvious.

There are differences in people from different places. Agreed. Obvious.

As it isn't difficult to grasp these basic concepts, the question is what do we do now?

We're all here together in this worldwide community that has no boundaries whatsoever. For the first time in history, people from anywhere in the world can converse in real time, as if they were next-door neighbors. This is a major, important advance in human culture! This changes everything!

Oh, wait, but all SG cares about is that this is an "American" board. That is just sad, to me. It strikes me as small-minded. You've taken this amazing opportunity in human interaction and found something negative to pick apart and complain about. That actually turns my stomach a little.

Sundae 08-01-2008 10:00 AM

You're the one who sees what I am saying as a problem.
I don't see this board as being a bad place at all. If I did, I wouldn't be here.

What do we do now? Eh? I don't need this place to change.
We carry on communicating, getting to know people, sharing details of our lives and learning what is different and what is the same and enjoying it. Those with turned stomachs are excepted of course.

xoxoxoBruce 08-01-2008 10:02 AM

As Monster explained, certain words and phrases, while still in English, carry different connotations in different countries. If you aren't cognizant of where the poster is from, you can misinterpret the post.

I think this shows up more in the daily banter than posts on serious international issues, but it's still important to flow of thoughts and feelings.

Undertoad 08-01-2008 10:15 AM

The cultures will slowly merge, and we accelerate the process.

Flint 08-01-2008 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 472994)
You're the one who sees what I am saying as a problem.

I see that YOU have a problem or you wouldn't be saying anything in the first place.

What else is there to your observation, if not an implied complaint? It's obvious that we are from different places and have different things about us--in fact it's SO obvious that there's nothing there to make a thread about.

The second, unfounded complaint you have is that Americans have a "blind spot" to the obvious thing you think you are so clever for having observed.
___

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Originally Posted by UT
The cultures will slowly merge, and we accelerate the process.

And the old-guard luddites will drag their feet at every step, constantly reminding us that we should stay segregated into little boxes that will be increasingly impossible to maintain the illusion of. I'm against that. If you hadn't noticed. There's no point in resisting the future--it comes whether you welcome it or not.

Griff 08-01-2008 10:18 AM

One thing that doesn't change in the Cellar no matter its make-up, we will find something to argue about.

HungLikeJesus 08-01-2008 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 472995)
As Monster explained, certain words and phrases, while still in English, carry different connotations in different countries. If you aren't cognizant of where the poster is from, you can misinterpret the post.

I think this shows up more in the daily banter than posts on serious international issues, but it's still important to flow of thoughts and feelings.

Fag?

Griff 08-01-2008 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by HungLikeJesus (Post 473004)
Fag?

No, but he is exploring his softer side.

Sundae 08-01-2008 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 473002)
I see that YOU have a problem or you wouldn't be saying anything in the first place.

What else is there to your observation, if not an implied complaint? It's obvious that we are from different places and have different things about us--in fact it's SO obvious that there's nothing there to make a thread about.

Nope. I wondered if I was alone in seeing this board as inhererntly American in character, because when I posted that it was disagreed with. I can't be arsed to go back and count how many times I stated that it wasn't a problem, it wasn't a complaint, I didn't have an issue with it, I really like this board, I enjoy the different perspective I get here. Quite apart from the fact that anyone who reads my posts should know this anyway - I revel in the differences because of what they teach me.
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The second, unfounded complaint you have is that Americans have a "blind spot" to the obvious thing you think you are so clever for having observed.
There's no second complaint as there is no first complaint. But questioning someone else's opinion isn't a complaint anyway. I don't think I'm clever for having a different opinion to some people on this board, no. And there are Americans on here who have seen what I am trying to say.

Flint 08-01-2008 10:36 AM

I am one of the Americans who has seen what you are trying to say. There is no difference in opinion, because the original observation isn't debatable--it can demonstrated by raw data, i.e. a greater number of American posters.

Now, putting that first-level, blatantly obvious aspect of the conversation to the side, there is the matter of what does this actually mean, in real-life terms?

You suggest that a person's nationality/geographical location should cause them to feel a distinct separateness, of all places on an INTERNET site (which has no geographical constraints)! This makes smoke come out of my ears. You're focused on the OLD model of human interaction. That isn't how things are done anymore.

If you feel out of place, on the internet, because of where you are physically at, then all I can say is "You're doing it wrong."

xoxoxoBruce 08-01-2008 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 473002)
I see that YOU have a problem or you wouldn't be saying anything in the first place.

You get so pissy when you're losing. :lol2:

Flint 08-01-2008 10:40 AM

I think we're having two different conversations.

skysidhe 08-01-2008 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by xoxoxoBruce (Post 472995)
As Monster explained, certain words and phrases, while still in English, carry different connotations in different countries. If you aren't cognizant of where the poster is from, you can misinterpret the post.

I think this shows up more in the daily banter than posts on serious international issues, but it's still important to flow of thoughts and feelings.

So this was about word usage? Now THAT I can agree with but that's not what they are conversing about.

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Originally Posted by Undertoad (Post 473000)
The cultures will slowly merge, and we accelerate the process.

I thought we already were.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flint (Post 473002)
And the old-guard luddites will drag their feet at every step, constantly reminding us that we should stay segregated into little boxes that will be increasingly impossible to maintain the illusion of. I'm against that. If you hadn't noticed. There's no point in resisting the future--it comes whether you welcome it or not.

This is why you can love/hate flint. That's so smart to be almost poetic.

I am still waiting for someone to tell Flint to chill though. My fair meter is blinking. He is way more to the point and the quick than I was.
That means he's blighter too.


ah never mind. It's payday hey! :)

Sundae 08-01-2008 10:53 AM

No.
I'm really not saying that. I think you are taking what I have said and taking the next step - it's honestly not one I am taking, or am interested in taking.

This was my original post:
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If you're going to denigrate every single "developed" country for their lifestyle, at least acknowledge them. If your issue is only with Americans then you might find a better audience on a US-only forum. This forum is US-based, but thanks to UT and the intelligence and experience of the American Dwelars it is a welcome home to a small but vocal "foreign" contingent, whose views are appreciated if not always accepted.

Bottom line - do your homework rather then posting a set piece. This is a community, not a soapbox.
I've even kept in the typo.

In this case Coberst was specifically criticising Americans, and I was actually trying to make the point (obviously very poorly) that in fact he was making points about the whole of the Western world, but giving American specific reasons for his conclusions. Which made no sense when his criticisms could be applied to any number of countries who do not have a common history with the US. I felt he was addressing the board as if it was composed solely of Americans, and that's certainly not true.

However, this lead to me explaining that if you post on a board where general terms like the Government, the military, the schools, the sports industry, tv channels, advertising etc etc ALL mean The American Government, the American military etc and not the ones you (I) am familiar with and know how they work, then you do adjust your mindset slightly. It is barely noticeable after a while, but sometimes a thread will surprise you (football being an obvious example).

I don't want to feel different, to feel apart. I react to the people here - not their nationality. But if you took all the locations away then I would still be making the same adjustments. It's not a bad thing. I don't mind. I'm not complaining. I think I'm done.

I've tried to put my point logically. I've kept coming back because I felt I was being identified as something I'm not and my views were being twisted. But we won't agree, so really I'll just let my posts show that I'm not small minded or trying to pull anything apart. If they don't then that's my bad and I'll live with it.

xoxoxoBruce 08-01-2008 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by skysidhe (Post 473026)
So this was about word usage? Now THAT I can agree with but that's not what they are conversing about.

That's what Sundae was talking about... the Cellar has a American flavor because of the preponderance of American posters, that shows in the daily banter. How many "International" boards go on and on about Philly cheesesteaks?

Flint's railing against everyone that doesn't buy into his brave new world, because he wants people to forget he's from Texas.

THEY aren't having the same conversation.

Flint 08-01-2008 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 473029)
I think you are taking what I have said and taking the next step - it's honestly not one I am taking, or am interested in taking.

That's exactly what I'm doing, because that's what I do. I'm sorry if I dragged you along the tangent I couldn't resist following.

It is interesting to see your original post:
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This forum is US-based, but thanks to UT and the intelligence and experience of the American Dwelars it is a welcome home to a small but vocal "foreign" contingent, whose views are appreciated if not always accepted.
I don't categorize, in my mind, "foreign" posters into a "contingent." That's exactly the opposite of what I think the internet is for.

But to show you that I understand your point, let me propose this analogy: Being a non-American on a predominantly American disscussion forum might feel something like being a non-Christian in America. And God knows I've done my fair share of beating that subject to death.

Sundae 08-01-2008 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 473058)
But to show you that I understand your point, let me propose this analogy: Being a non-American on a predominantly American disscussion forum might feel something like being a non-Christian in America. And God knows I've done my fair share of beating that subject to death.

Thank you.
And btw I feel the same (albeit to a to a lesser degree, despite having a state religion) in the UK.
:grouphug:

Flint 08-01-2008 12:08 PM

Okay, huggy-thing, now jeez let's move on...

Clodfobble 08-01-2008 12:58 PM

What? No! The whole point of fighting is the make-up sex, and you want to just rush through that part? That's just freaking... un-American.

Sundae 08-01-2008 12:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 473068)
Okay, huggy-thing, now jeez let's move on...

Don't bring Jesus into it now!

lookout123 08-01-2008 02:49 PM

hey sundae girl? i was just wondering why you have such a problem with this being an american board?

Sundae 08-01-2008 03:49 PM

My problem isn't with this being an American board, lookout.
My problem is with YOU.

lookout123 08-01-2008 04:17 PM

you have a problem with me being an american? why do you hate our tall building Sundae? why?:sniff:

DanaC 08-01-2008 06:59 PM

It's not your tall buildings we hate, its your freedom.

skysidhe 08-01-2008 07:01 PM

It would be nice to have an 'international news' section on the cellar. Maybe it would make it seem all the more inclusive. I for one would love first hand reports of the goings on of other countries by their citizens.


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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 473125)
It's not your tall buildings we hate, its your freedom.

STILL no freedom from taxes! We got to pay for all those bridges leading to nowhere.
(not a metaphor)

DanaC 08-01-2008 07:15 PM

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It would be nice to have an 'international news' section on the cellar. Maybe it would make it seem all the more inclusive. I for one would love first hand reports of the goings on of other countries by their citizens.
I don't think that's needed. I doubt there are non-americans on here who feel uneasy about including news items from their own countries in the regular forums. I know I feel quite happy to include English news, and I know plenty of us post news items from various different countries, not necessarily our own. The only limitation on local news is one of language, and there's not really much we can do about that.

The current affairs and politics forums are already international, in that they contain stories and events from many different countries and are posted by a mixed community.

lookout123 08-01-2008 07:36 PM

news from...outside the US? that's what war reporters are for right?

monster 08-01-2008 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 473125)
It's not your tall buildings we hate, its your freedom.

:lol2:

Sundae 08-02-2008 03:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 473125)
It's not your tall buildings we hate, its your freedom.

Fries, Dana. Freedom fries.
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Originally Posted by lookout123 (Post 473128)
news from...outside the US? that's what war reporters are for right?

I know you hate superior Europeans, but it's true. I can only think it's due to our education. I can't think of many Brits who don't know that New York is the capital of America, and can name the two other major cities (Disneyland and Hollywood).

xoxoxoBruce 08-02-2008 11:03 AM

Philadelphia is the Capitol, silly.;)

classicman 08-02-2008 11:13 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl (Post 473168)
Fries, Dana. Freedom fries.

I no you hate stuperior Uropeans, but it's trew. I can only think it's doodoo to our ejukashun.

Fixed it for ya

DanaC 08-02-2008 11:14 AM

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Quote:
Originally Posted by Sundae Girl
Fries, Dana. Freedom fries.

I no you hate stuperior Uropeans, but it's trew. I can only think it's doodoo to our ejukulashun.

Fixed it for ya

Fixed it for ya

classicman 08-02-2008 11:30 AM

touche' - well done ya British commie tart.

Shawnee123 08-02-2008 12:14 PM

I just wandered into the public library computer room to look up a hint for my Sherlock Holmes game, and I have to say...you guys are the best. This thread signifies all that is Cellar, imo: point, counterpoint, passion, friends, acceptance, debate, even a little irritation at each other. It's a great read.

That is all.

:)

lookout123 08-02-2008 03:14 PM

I was just going to make fun of the land that has produced Katie Price, er Prince, or whatever the hell her name is... but then I remembered we have Britney and Lindsay Lohan.

On second thought I'll just link to her wiki page. check out those measurements Elspode.

Big Boobs McCluskie


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