elSicomoro |
11-23-2003 12:06 PM |
Admittedly, there were--and still are--times when I consider the number of posts to be a contest, though these moments happen less frequently now than in the past.
Why do I do it? I dunno...the competition in me perhaps? The most is best mentality? Just to be an ass? One or more of the above? *shrugs*
Do my moments of said mentality produce some lesser quality posts? Perhaps...but I've always tried to create posts that I think will be cool or have some sort of relevance. If I'm not happy with a post, I usually delete it.
I know it's stupid...there's absolutely no reason for me to be like that. It's not like Tony gives me a prize for having the most posts or anything like that. It's not like people will bow before me for having the most posts.
Whenever I feel one of those moments coming on, I just beat the above into my head...and have continued to do so over the past 3 years. It's starting to stick. :)
There's a fairly good chance that Bruce will pass me in the not-too-distant future, and I'm cool with that. One of these days, I may find myself towards the bottom...and I can handle that. People like and respect me here b/c of WHAT I'm posting, not because of HOW MANY posts I make.
Now I can't lie here...it is kinda cool to be the #1 poster. But at the same time, I think there are some disadvantages that come with it...or with being a Top 10 poster.
In some cases, people will look at the posts of the top posters to get a general sense of a board. And if they see that you're either posting shit or being an ass to others, that might cause them not to join or stay on the board. Hopefully, if people look at my posts here, they'll see that I'm knowledgeable, funny and respectful.
To expand on what Torrere mentioned, if so few people have made the bulk of posts, that might make someone feel like their thoughts won't have any value. I try to be even-handed, but there have been times where I've made a snide remark to a newbie (e.g. a recent remark I made to Jimbo, though I turned it into something humorous later as a sign of my "acceptance" of him).
And another problem with being one of the top posters is that you become more of a target to some--though it doesn't seem to happen here much. Xugumad seemed to be a bit like that. What a weenie.
In the end, I just try to post cool and/or relevant stuff, be respectful and enjoy the company and insight of others. I have my moments, but I'm working on them. I think we're all works in progress from birth until death anyway...
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