Haha OMG you have a good memory!

Yeah he was...I don't know.

No idea what I was thinking. He did turn out to be a good provider and he never cheated on me or anything. We just had nothing in common, was like we were never on the same page about anything.

We had a non-dramatic friendly split-up. Was my idea. I ended up dating a super hot guy who had just graduated from college, 12 1/2 yrs younger than me, wrestler w/ perfect body. That was fun. Now I try to stick to guys my own age though haha. Must have been some kind of biological clock mid-thirties thing going on ;)

Yeah, that 4 door Arsen... uh, I mean sedan, was quirky but reliable, faithful, dependable. Ah but when that Corvette pulled up you couldn't resist going for a joy ride. :lol2:

Good to hear from you Stacey, good to hear from someone who's winning.

Well, you always had entertaining stories about living with him. The details are hazy. I just remember apartment cleaning standoffs, and dirty towels, and toilet seats, and spitting on souls. It was a long time ago.

Do you still have dogs? Weren't you raising Chihuahuas?

a mid-life crisis?

regardless, it's a nice surprise to see you here again staceyv! welcome back. :)

LMAO!!! The spitting on the soul, oh man I still use that one!!! And the apartment cleaning standoff pictures, lol!! Oh, those got into the wrong hands. Long story... Gotta be careful what you post online!

I did really well with the Chihuahua thing, I had the #2 chihuahua in country owner-handled (that's me!) at one point. Lots of champions, great clients- I handled for the top breeder in this country and world famous clients from Japan, etc etc.

I don't miss all that responsibility. Now I sit back and look at pics of my granddogs on Facebook and that is enough for me. I feel like a parent whose kids moved out and went to college- It's time for ME!!!

Plus some of the crazy bastards in dogs- that is another story for another thread. I don't have a desire for drama in my life. I did make some great friends too though. I did the whole dog thing for 7 years. But now I have a real job, lol.

Arsen found a girlfriend. They live together. She cooks for him! And does his laundry! I'm happy for him. He also got his citizenship. And he paid for my bankruptcy lawyer and I am now completely debt-free so we both came out ahead.

I live in the house that is under his name but I pay mortgage. He comes over to mow the lawn every few weeks and I pay him with shots of vodka. We have always been friendly- like roommates or brother-sister.

Dating has been fun. Ran into some textbook sociopaths. Got my mind fucked every which way but came out stronger, smarter and sassier. I am probably the happiest I have ever been. I have great friends, fun times, little responsibility, hot male diversions, and a brand new niece. Yup, #winning!

That Corvette...when I opened the hood it was all used parts...Now I look under the hood, kick the tires and take multiple test drives before even considering putting a car in my driveway. I mean a fast/sporty/sexy car can park in my driveway overnight here and there...but If I'm gonna commit to make payments on it, it better be a "sleeper".

All I can think to say is what an appropriate title for this thread to make my comment and what an appropriate thread for you to reappear in, welcome back Stacey ;)

"But it's all right now, You learned your lesson well.
You see, ya can't please everyone, so ya got to please yourself."

Good for you, that's why you're happy now. :D

Nice to see you, Stacey!

Hahaha, thanks Tanya.

Thanks for the genuine hellos from everyone else. I smell drama so I'm out of here. Time to hop on the treadmill, then off to work, then a night of socializing.

Someday if I am bedridden with illness or home with period cramps or something and have nothing better to do I'll explain to you all about why Nirvana just called me a cunt. But I don't have time for a sociopathic circus right now, it's draining.

Have a fabulous day!

There was a discussion earlier in a different thread maybe you missed it Stacey, being a cunt and being cunty are 2 different things so no I did not call you a cunt but I was definitely being cunty. Welcome all the same. I can't wait to hear more about your difficult periods and the size of your different boyfriends' peni along with any fabrication you may have concerning me :)

Well, that cuntscalated quickly.

Yeah. It's a whole thing.

we should close the curtains on it

You're working it now, Monster. :haha: