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Big Sarge 12-17-2013 03:03 PM

Damn if I know what they want. I always end up with a broken heart and an empty wallet

JBKlyde 12-17-2013 03:40 PM

women want Jesus, men want Mary.. Men Love the Women Women Respect the Men when you go any further than this you are treading very thin Ice an more than likely the "potential" relationship will not work out.

Sundae 12-17-2013 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Big Sarge (Post 886405)
Damn if I know what they want. I always end up with a broken heart and an empty wallet

If I only had my own pay-per-view channel you'd have an empty wallet but a bulge in your pants...
Well, okay, not tonight. Jogging bottoms and sweatshirt turn you on?

DanaC 12-17-2013 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by JBKlyde (Post 886408)
women want Jesus, men want Mary.. Men Love the Women Women Respect the Men when you go any further than this you are treading very thin Ice an more than likely the "potential" relationship will not work out.

How bout if the women love the men and the men respect the women?

Big Sarge 12-17-2013 05:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Sundae (Post 886409)
If I only had my own pay-per-view channel you'd have an empty wallet but a bulge in your pants...
Well, okay, not tonight. Jogging bottoms and sweatshirt turn you on?

Baby, you'd look great dressed in anything or nothing:blush:

JBKlyde 12-17-2013 05:48 PM

How bout if the women love the men and the men respect the women? I am sure love and respect are 2 way streets however I am speaking if the initial contact...

busterb 12-17-2013 06:00 PM

Since I'm not a women and after being married 4 times and bunch of other live ins I have not a clue

xoxoxoBruce 12-17-2013 06:03 PM

Yeah, but with enough experience to know you don't have a clue. The men who think they do are headed for a rude awakening.

DanaC 12-18-2013 03:36 AM

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Originally Posted by JBKlyde (Post 886419)
How bout if the women love the men and the men respect the women? I am sure love and respect are 2 way streets however I am speaking if the initial contact...

So, in the initial contact, men should love women and women should respect men?

Why?

Clodfobble 12-18-2013 08:53 AM

It's the Biblical equivalent of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." It was a cultural given at the time that women would naturally be loving (that is, affectionate, caring, gentle) towards their husbands, but might not instinctively know how to respect and uphold their manliness (praise for accomplishments, trust in his problem-solving abilities, let him take the kids on a trip that seems too dangerous to her watchful eye.) At the same time, it was expected that men would know how to treat their wives like trusted business partners, but might not understand that sometimes she just needed a hug, or a thoughtful gift of flowers--i.e., "loving" her in a traditionally feminine way.

It was not that each gender should behave differently, but rather that each gender should remember to develop their less-instinctive side. Major gender stereotyping, yes, but nonetheless still true enough that a modern-day author could write a million-dollar bestseller on the same topic.

footfootfoot 12-18-2013 10:24 AM

No one ever went broke underestimating [the taste] of the American public

JBKlyde 12-18-2013 11:58 AM

So, in the initial contact, men should love women and women should respect men?

Why?

If a man is a man more than likely he could smash a woman face in with a single blow... personally "I WILL NOT" However if you don't respect fire it will burn you.

If a woman is a woman more than likely she could rip a mans heart out with her little pinky and make him feel like the biggest piece of toad dust... personally when I find a potential wife I will love her to the point she dose not want to rip my heart out and "hopefully" she will not.. been there done that.. but fire can generate great warmth and beauty and be use for very usefull things if you don't "abuse it"..

qcc??

limey 12-18-2013 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by JBKlyde (Post 886497)
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If a man is a man more than likely he could smash a woman face in with a single blow....
.....

If a man is a man he will do no such thing nor would it occur to him that he could, or might, or that a man who is a man would do anything of the sort.
Get back on the meds, JBK, and get this sort of crap out of your thinking.

DanaC 12-19-2013 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Clodfobble (Post 886461)
It's the Biblical equivalent of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." It was a cultural given at the time that women would naturally be loving (that is, affectionate, caring, gentle) towards their husbands, but might not instinctively know how to respect and uphold their manliness (praise for accomplishments, trust in his problem-solving abilities, let him take the kids on a trip that seems too dangerous to her watchful eye.) At the same time, it was expected that men would know how to treat their wives like trusted business partners, but might not understand that sometimes she just needed a hug, or a thoughtful gift of flowers--i.e., "loving" her in a traditionally feminine way.

It was not that each gender should behave differently, but rather that each gender should remember to develop their less-instinctive side. Major gender stereotyping, yes, but nonetheless still true enough that a modern-day author could write a million-dollar bestseller on the same topic.

That's seems a generous reading to me. But I see what you mean.

JBKlyde 12-19-2013 10:09 AM

If a man is a man he will do no such thing nor would it occur to him that he could, or might, or that a man who is a man would do anything of the sort.
Get back on the meds, JBK, and get this sort of crap out of your thinking


we have gays in military and women on the front lines now you HAVE to think of it this way. It's a 2 way street and if you "swirve" in my direction you might just get run off the road. Plus I'm on wretched Christmas...


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