And all this time I've been telling people you were the median girl.

No,no ... she was la mode.

I think it's likely that, most of us have been the mean girl to somebody at some point. And it's quite likely a lot of the mean girls were just girls, really.

I've noticed a change in Tril. Over the last few years. I've noticed changes in myself. I don't think either of us are quite so combative as we were. Maybe that's why we get along much better.

Hey Tril....d'ye think maybe we're growing up? :p

thanks, Ali. That means a lot to me.


And thank you Dana - but it's awkward growing up at the ripe old age of 48 (as my dad always points out, I'm not really 48 but ON my 49th year and on my b/day I will start on my 50th year! He's a prick like that) Mid-life crisis? I thought I'd already gone thru that mess! Leave it to me to have more than one.

:)

Seriously, life isn't bad. I've just been tapped on the shoulder by the past and I turned around to look at it. I don't have to do that. I can keep moving/looking forward. Turning and looking - it'll turn you into a pillar of salt, mate!

She set the standard for deviations, too.