I'm very sorry for your loss, Dar. Sending sympathy vibes your way. :(

I am very sorry for your loss, Dar.

Inappropriate though it probably is, I have to note that Momdar is a great term -it speaks to me of a combination of the following mom qualities:

"Eyes in the back of the head" ...to know when you're being naughty
"Batsense" ...to know when you need them even though you've given no physical indication
"Fine Tuning" ...to know that crying voice in the playground of 100 kids is yours, and to know if it's a cry that needs intervention or not -without looking up

Dar I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. From reading on here it was very apparent how close you were and how the distance was troubling you as the end was nearing. Perhaps she too was aware. Moms are like that.
If there is anything..........

I'm sorry for you loss Dar.

sorry for your Loss dar

My condolences to you and your family. :sniff:

My deepest condolences.

Aw crap. :(

That's what your family is for, you may be lost for a bit, but you won't be alone. You've got a second family for backup, here too.

My condolences Dar. Hang in there and hang out here: you'll find your bearings again.

My thoughts are with you and your family, dar. :(

Please accept my condolence. May you find peace in this time of grief.

I wish I could send comfort. My condolences to you dar.

I'm so sorry, dar. :(

I am so sorry, dar. I tried to say several clever and witty things, but it's all falling flat, so I'll stick with what I know. The pain, the frustration, the humiliation of having others provide intimate care services, all of that, it's over. That space occupied a very small part of her life, so remember the rest of it, and gently let go of the not so good stuff.

I hope this isn't becoming a trend here, people.