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same way you can you be gay even if you've never had sex

I'm bi for Sundae.

:)

Sundae- You're attracted to women at least some? So if you look at sexuality as something like a pH scale (that is how I see it). On the Acid end you have Straight, and the Base is Gay. If you fall in between (I think most of us do) then you are Bi to a certain point. So you might be like a 2 on the scale of attracted to women, but you aren't a 0 (straight), therefore you're bi.

I know some people see it that way. I don't - as I said, sexual activity with a woman is exciting because it's taboo. I only could people as bi if they are equally sexually attracted to either sex. I will never have a girlfriend or a civil partnership with a woman. I may yet have a boyfriend, although these days I think I'm pretty much asexual in practical terms.

That's not to say your definition is wrong, just that it's not one I apply to myself.

In my "social circles" bi-females are socially acceptable. In fact, I have dated a few. I never felt threatened by their dalliances with females.

As for bi-males, they remain pariahs.

I thought 0 would be masturbation.

Masturbation is having sex with someone of the same gender. :eek:

True, I guess.... where do Real Dolls come in?

as far as I'm concerned, it's the homophobes that are the real pariahs

The Deep South is not as open minded or progressive thinking in terms of sexuality as other parts of the US. Add to this a subculture of so called "macho" men that are found in combat arms units....see where I am going?

no.

very few things make me as furious as haters, of any stripe.

I dunno how to be bi. Describe it for me in great detail.

Maybe some people are Bi at certain times, like when they are really horny and anything will do.

Sort of a Bi-Cycle. :D

So...Are you saying that my dozens of exploits with women makes me bi? wtf?!? You are crazy!!! What the hell.