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Radar 05-06-2008 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by DanaC (Post 451508)
What's wrong with Farah?

Nothing wrong with Farah. But there is with Farah Khan.

Radar 05-06-2008 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by binky (Post 451531)
A possible problem with Farah Khan might be http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Louis_Farrakhan

Bingo! A young white girl named after an older outspoken Black Panther, Nation of Islam, racist, asshole. That's cruel.

monster 05-06-2008 07:05 PM

I think you're a jerk. Fortunately for the world of people not named Mary and Frank, you're unlikely to be hiring many people.

I also doubt with a name like Khan, the girl was pure "white" and maybe she's proud of her heritage? If it'd've caused her grief, she'd be sure to have changed it by now.

How about you look at parenting like your job isn't necessarily to make life easier for your kid but to give them better tools for dealing with it? Yes, kids are cruel, but you're using examples from your childhood. This is a new generation. Kids with boring names are just as likely to be teased and have to be called by all their names to be distinguished from their classmates with the same name. You're out of touch. Ocean will probably go to school with an Autumn, a Summer, a Michael (female), a Sasha (male) and a Kyin (undetermined). And Emily A. Emily M, Emilee 2 Es and three Alex Woods.

lumberjim 05-06-2008 07:36 PM

my son, Attha disagrees, too.

Cloud 05-06-2008 07:39 PM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 451539)
I also doubt with a name like Khan, the girl was pure "white" and maybe she's proud of her heritage?

good point, and I'm left wondering: How do you know she was white if you only spoke to her on the telephone?

monster 05-06-2008 07:40 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 451542)
my son, Attha disagrees, too.

too right, Mr. T'pornstoreagain

monster 05-06-2008 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Cloud (Post 451545)
good point, and I'm left wondering: How do you know she was white if you only spoke to her on the telephone?


And even if the meeting was in person, what is it with making a judgement based on skin/hair color/racial appearance?

Cloud 05-06-2008 07:44 PM

not to mention name.

monster 05-06-2008 07:45 PM

Totally. I'm guessing LaKysha ain't getting a look-in.....

Radar 05-06-2008 07:47 PM

I think you're an idiot if you think naming a kid Ocean or any other retarded name is good for them. Ensuring that your kids will be picked on, and get into a lot of fights doesn't prepare them for the real world, it prepares them for psychotherapy where they will spend years trying to get over the hatred they have for their parents.

I hire my share of people. I've hired a hundred or so over the years. But there are thousands if not millions of other people like me who don't want to hire someone with tattoos on their face, or names like "Moonbeam" etc.

As far as distinguishing kids who have a different name, the content of their character, their personality, and their performance should do that...not a name. A name doesn't make you special, or interesting, or cool.

As you said, even having the same name, you MIGHT get picked on or attacked by bullies. But having a freakish name will guarantee it.

My daughter is named Nina. That's not a very common name. It's also not a freak name. I didn't name her Zamboni, or Ocean, or Lemonjello, etc.

The bottom line is if you name your kid Rainbow and they get the shit beaten out of them, or they get picked on, or they hate you, or they have a hard time finding a job... it's YOUR FAULT.

monster 05-06-2008 07:48 PM

......it's pretty rich coming from someone who is married to a woman with foreign roots. Maybe he protests a little too much?

Radar 05-06-2008 07:48 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 451542)
my son, Attha disagrees, too.

Attha Boy?

Cloud 05-06-2008 07:49 PM

One of my grandbabies' middle name is Cloud, in my honor. Does that count?

Radar 05-06-2008 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 451551)
......it's pretty rich coming from someone who is married to a woman with foreign roots. Maybe he protests a little too much?


Unlike the Chinese, I didn't name my child by dropping a drawer full of silverware down the stairs.... PING .... ZHAO... SUM... TING.... WONG

lumberjim 05-06-2008 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 451542)
my son, Attha disagrees, too.

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Originally Posted by monster (Post 451546)
too right, Mr. T'pornstoreagain

:lol2:


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