I have the five love languages. Someone gave it to us as a wedding present but I'd already heard about the book prior to that.

I haven't read it yet, but from all accounts it's worth the read.

I read it and enjoyed it. Books like that are full of information you know but don't really think about until it is put in front of you in someone else's words.

It seems to me that there are always plenty of community resources--EXCEPT for whatever your particular need is. :(

I used to see these window stickers on cars all over the place ... don't know if they're any good, though.

my parents and some friends did that M.E. thing years and years ago. I remember they all said good things about it, and they are all still married. Of course, I don't think any of those couples were on the verge of divorce before they went either.

How in the hell is "protecting the sanctity of marriage" the job of the state? I'm just saying, if your gonna do one, do the other.

The department of Health says that living in unsanitary conditions is bad. I wonder if I can get them to clean my house and wipe my rear for me?

They won't help protect the sanstity of marriage, but there's a brown noser in the department health and human ass-wiping that can help with your particular problem.