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lumberjim 08-30-2007 10:13 AM

::PUTS ON HIP WADERS::

DanaC 08-30-2007 10:16 AM

Generally? I'd say not. I haven't experienced it in here myself. Eleswhere yes, but not here. I guess it depends on the nature of the confidence as to whether or not it's something you can genuinely guard against. If you have shared some part of your life story in confidence and that is spread, I'd say you got stung badly and there was nothing you could have done to prevent it other than be a better judge of character, and who after all can be said to have flaw-free judgement on that score?

If, however, you shared an opinion about someone else and that was the confidence which was broken, then it was avoidable by not saying anything about someone that you would be uncomfortable to say to that person's face.

I don't know what the confidence was which was broken.

monster 08-30-2007 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 380102)
what are you trying to say, Flint? Lassie fell down the well? She needs our help? lead the way, girl!


:lol:

Flint 08-30-2007 10:20 AM

If you have a "problem" with a message board, you're doing it wrong.

elSicomoro 08-30-2007 10:21 AM

*sycamore stumbles out of bed*

Shit...what time is it? 20 after 10...gotta be at work at 11.

*reads this thread a couple of times*

Man...I was having some really fucked up dreams last night. Now I get here and it's like a continuation of the dreams!

I need some breakfast...

lumberjim 08-30-2007 10:21 AM

she revealed the fact that he sent her a pm -asking her not to be mean to him anymore, the little dear. i can see why he was so upset. did I call him Nancy yet? cuz......Nancy!

Spexxvet 08-30-2007 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 380183)
If you have a "problem" with a message board, you're doing it wrong.

It's a learning process, like everything else

Flint 08-30-2007 10:33 AM

Your face is a learning process.

Spexxvet 08-30-2007 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 380185)
she revealed the fact that he sent her a pm -asking her not to be mean to him anymore, the little dear. i can see why he was so upset. did I call him Nancy yet? cuz......Nancy!

Liar.
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Originally Posted by Flint (Post 380193)
Your face is a learning process.

So's your butt.

lumberjim 08-30-2007 10:38 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Flint (Post 380193)
Your face is a learning process.

now THAT is subtlety



srsly

lumberjim 08-30-2007 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet (Post 380195)
Liar.


Mook

Spexxvet 08-30-2007 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by lumberjim (Post 380201)
Mook

There's the sublety that I've come to expect from you. And the constructive exchange of information. Unfortunately, it doesn't make your statement any truer.

lumberjim 08-30-2007 11:12 AM

wang

Flint 08-30-2007 11:50 AM

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yesman065 08-30-2007 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by spex
I didn't want to start a board-wide arguement. I wanted to know if betraying a confidence was standard procedure at the Cellar.



Then why didn't you ask that in the first place? I know we haven't really had much interaction, but it did look like a cheap shot after the "rest of the story" came out. Not that I care, I've given and received plenty myself.


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