Some of my thought process is missing from my post. It should really read:

I like the idea of a courtesan lifestyle, but when it comes to cold hard reality I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't desire, or fake interest where there was none.

And if the interest was there, I'd only fall for him & end up thoroughly miserable because he's married. Then again, I'm miserable anyway - maybe I'm talking myself into it after all ;)

You did say he wanted a 'fun' companion. Maybe that's all he wants!
:angel:

Married? Too many worms in that can!

Give him MY number. I could use the vacation and you would be amazed at how many married "straight" men will hook up with a gay man on the sly.
I've heard every excuse you can think of from "My wife won't do that, so..." to "I just need a ______ while my wife is _____".

it was gonna be all 3 or nothing!:3_eyes:

Then you'd have to drive hundreds of miles wearing a diaper! :p

Holding out for a trip to:

Location:
Philly suburbs
???

Are you calling me a Loser foot3??? :p

I dunno Ducks. I find myself in a quandry lately. The whole, sanctity of marriage and all that.

I will say though, that if the wife knows what's going on then it's ok, or if they have an open relationship then that's ok too. It's only if it's on the sly that I've got a bigger problem these days. Not so far as you would go in this instance, but the husband. Know what I mean?

what? me? never.no no no no no no.


yes.

Bite me

I will. :blush:

Here in the States, we call this guy a "Sugar Daddy". Nothing wrong with that.

Just a few queastons?

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Traveling?


Via what? Plane?, Boat? You do realize that "all expenses paid" means he "owns" you and if you're in the wrong country - he really "owns" you and could give you away. (Yes, slavery still exists in some countries and this scenario has been reported to have happened). Even if that *didn't* happen, I bet you won't have enough money and/or resources to get back home if you were dumped somewhere.

If you travel via boat, you won't leave much of a paper trail; If you are an unpaid "companion" you won't leave much of a paper trail.


What kind of business is he in? Does it involve dealing with middle eastern countries for oil? Heads of state? How do people around him act? Does he usually get what he wants...? And when he doesn't .. what happens..? What of the wife...she could be evil too...

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Regards,

SA