Speaking for Men, I just want to say that we suck, we know we suck, and we can't help it. It is genetic. However, some of us try real hard not to suck quite as badly. I do hope you find one of us who falls into that category.

Now...please tell us more about your pants falling off.

Question; have you told anyone, besides us, that you need healing?

There are people that exude warmth and calm, having a healing aura that envelopes those around them. Everyone assumes those people have all their shit in one sock and don't need any help...don't need support.....or healing.
Don't make the mistake of waiting until somebody figures it out...speak up. ;)

...keeping in mind that, with 90% of the men you attempt to make aware of your condition, anything you say will be interpreted by them as "do me".

I did mention that most of us suck, right? Except for me and Bruce and a few other Cellarites, that is.

KV, I kinda figured that was an issue... that's why I tried to reassure you that it's THEM that aren't worthy of YOU, not the other way around.

First off I'm aware that not all men suck. I've actually only come across a few that have affected me in a way that would make me say "geez, you suck!". I know that a lot of the feelings at the moment come from confusion and hurt more than fact or reality. I'm not afraid to let them take their half of the blame when necessary, but I'm also willing to own up to mine.

And, for the record, my pants haven't been falling off...i've been faithful to the belt. It's better that way. :D
I must have been up to something though...I wonder what I've been doing.

I don't suck, everyone else just needs to lighten-up.

Answer: :p

I have kind of spoken up. Not really. In some ways yes, but mostly only to people that don't really know all of me, like my beliefs and background - my core, if that makes sense. Most of all I have a really hard time letting other people do things for me, depending on them, or relying on them. I think that comes from being a middle child, as well as always seeming to be let down when I did let myself rely on people. Maybe it's because I don't express that I actually am depending on them? Maybe it's because I expect too much? Either way it always turns out to be a bad thing. So that's why I have a hard time doing it.

The ones I should probably "speak up" the most to are the ones I am quietest too. That's weird too, and I'm not really sure why but I'm working on it. :thumb:
Thanks for the encouragement.

And I'd just like to end by saying. The last couple of days were just hard I guess. I'm feeling lots better today.

Glad you're feeling better, KV. It is tough learning how to rely on other people when you've been let down. Really tough. I try, but I just can't do it ...:(

:eyebrow: Admiral Windwagon Smith told me I have nice feet...:confused: :redface: :3_eyes: :thepain3:

Uh...

I know, weird right. Foot fetish much?

I think you broke my brain.

Really?!?! Wow, I'm pretty powerful then. How did I do that?

If you're robbing a bank and you're pants fall down, I think it's okay to laugh and to let the hostages laugh too, because, come on, life is funny.

In Loving Memory
 

What's up with all the vehicles driving around that have "In loving Memory of ..." posted on their cars with stickers? Do people really use money given to them from a loved one to buy their cars and then designate it to their memory? Is that just a Midwest thing? Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I can't actually say that I don't have a family member that hasn't done the same thing in a different manner. I'm just wondering, is that happening all over the place or is it just here? I bet 5 out of 10 cars I saw on the way to work had stickers like that in their back windows.