SG, it's Memorial Day on Monday for us merkins. Remember those who made the ultimate sacrifice for citizens and country.

Ah, thank you. We do all that in November, when it's suitably gloomy.

We have a Bank Holiday on Monday because it's the end of May.
It's usually spent complaining about the weather.

So do we, November 11th we honor veterans, but Monday we honor those that died in the wars.

And if it's sunny, we spend the entire weekend dicussing the fact that it isn't raining.

Or stuck in traffic, trying to get to some tourist trap on the coast.

memorial day weekend is all about the outdoor pools opening :)

Taking advantage of the drift... we are having cracking Bank Holiday weekend weather. I took some pics with blue sky in to prove it (Aylesbury thread).

I've used the weather to hang out some washing to dry.

Rock and roll lifestyle...damn right.

and here comes the next phase in the stages of loss: hello, anger.

So sorry, disenchanted.

Take that energy and use it constructively. Thats all I can offer. Build something demolish something chop firewood work out... create, destroy, construct or repair. It keeps your mind and body active.

good luck.

In this situation, anger can be good. Its a form of self-preservation for the psyche.

I say grab another pony and saddle up. Don't waste time wanting someone who doesn't want you.

As soon as I think one thing, she sends me a text message out of the blue that makes me reconsider everything I thought I knew.

Head games? :eyebrow: