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limey 09-05-2009 09:39 AM

Sorry wolf. It's no fun when mum is sick. Hugs to you both.

monster 09-05-2009 01:29 PM

:(

richlevy 09-05-2009 01:48 PM

Hang in there.

classicman 09-06-2009 07:10 AM

More prayers for momwolf. :(

monster 09-06-2009 03:27 PM

How is she today?

DanaC 09-06-2009 04:23 PM

Yeah, how's your Mum doing Wolf?

wolf 09-06-2009 04:51 PM

Got back from the hospital a bit ago, went for visiting around 1130. Momwolf was sleeping. Her nurse pulled me aside and let me know that they are having trouble stabilizing her heart rate. She'll spike up into the 130s or better. Then some Nitro and Serax later, she's back down into normal range. Happened again while I was there. I got shuffled out into the family waiting room and called back in about 15 minutes later. The hospitalist and cardiologist are monitoring her carefully.

She slept most of the time I was there, which is fine. She needs that right now. I left after she woke up for a bit, because I didn't want her to awaken and just find me gone.

She's very frightened.

One of the things that they told her they wanted to do was a cardiac catheterization. So far she is refusing. The last time she had one down was at HUP/Presbyterian, back in 2006. At the time it revealed what we already knew ... the grafts from her 1985 cardiac bypass have lost elasticity, and they are also partially occluded. At the time they had considered placing a stent, but the architecture of her veins was such that they wouldn't be able to maneuver one into place without a strong possibility of busting through the vessel wall, so no go on that.

Frankly, I don't expect that much has changed there in the last three years. This is also the opinion of her cardiologist.

I can't wait until the darn holiday weekend is over and this hospital's guy can talk to her guy.

What I have to figure out is what to do ... do the paperwork and initiate FMLA now, or when she's ready for discharge home?

(It's really my only option. I am totally out of vacation at this point (momwolf's breast cancer, shingles, and my visit to The Mouse), and if I don't work the minimum number of hours per week I have to pay out of pocket for my insurance. At least with FMLA they can charge the time against sick rather than vacay. And I have plenty of sick.)

DanaC 09-06-2009 04:57 PM

Ach Wolf, honey, how worrying for you. And how scary for your poor mum.

monster 09-06-2009 09:03 PM

So sorry wolf.

capnhowdy 09-07-2009 08:06 AM

Thoughts and prayers from the capnhowdy camp.

Griff 09-07-2009 08:19 AM

I'm sorry it is going so rough. :(

Pie 09-07-2009 03:12 PM

Man, wolf, I'm sorry you're going through this. We turned down a cardiac cath for my father, two days before he died. The cardiac team was all gung-ho, but the real question was "is anything actionable going to come out of this" and the answer was a resounding "no".

Best wishes for momwolf.

wolf 09-07-2009 06:58 PM

Today's visit went well, mostly anyway. She has some color other than "ashen," which I took to be an encouraging sign. However, she had a "cardiac event" while I was there, much like the one I described above.

Tonight I got a call from the doctor covering the unit. She's apparently had a couple more episodes since this afternoon. I offered to come over because she's scared about being alone, but the doc told me not to come as they are hoping that she will get some sleep, but they will call for me if momwolf wants me there.

This sucks.

jinx 09-07-2009 07:02 PM

Sucks is right wolf.:comfort:
We'll be thinking of you both...

TheMercenary 09-07-2009 08:42 PM

Sorry to hear about all that wolf. Hope mom wolf pulls out. Sounds like she is going through quite the ordeal. But I do think she is in the best place she can be for now, as unsettling as it is with her in the hospital. Good thoughts coming your way.


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