Oh, I know, I know...I've been licking my wounds all night--and, this morning. I don't know who I hate more-him or me. The urge to fuck up his life is raising it's ugly head. I want to call him and tell him off. Not that he'd care.

Dude. get over it. You can't fuck up his life. There's nothing you could do that would remotely affect him one way or the other (there's assault and murder, but that's counterproductive). Make him as much of a non-entity in your mind as you are in his. Rejoin humanity and stop wallowing in dog shit.

You're afraid of feeling nothing, aren't you? Well, you're going to have to, at least for awhile. Suck it up, do it. End of story.

I'm quickly running out of empathy here. How many times can someone walk up to you and say "Look, I hit myself in the head with a hammer" and you stop feeling sorry for them?

end. it.

I don't know you Brianna (nice name :) , it is also my daughter's), so I can't address your situation directly, but I do know about not-so-healthy relationships.

Having toxic people in your life will make you sick (mentally, emotionally and sometimes physically). You can also get addicted to the roller coaster of extremes that a relationship with a toxic person often involves. But seriously, the nice, gentle ups and downs of a healthy relationship are SO much better than the wild ride that comes with toxic people. It takes some getting used to, the lack of drama...but it makes for a much happier life, overall.

Oh, and those toxic people are taking up space in our lives that decent people could be filling. Get them out! Let them sucker some other poor soul.


Stormie
<who got off the roller coaster a while back>

I think the time has come to start teaching your spam catcher to put all of his messages in the trash.

nope.

do what i did. . . . . BLOCK his email address from yours. do.it.now.

Yes. Block/Spamize his email address right away. PM me for help doing this.

With phone, caller id from London, don't answer. If he gets thru, answer like a telemarketing call, "not interested." and hang up. If this is hard, then change your phone number.

It's like alcohol, you won't drink a quart if you don't take the first drink. It's all about the first drink.